I chatted the other day with a guy on Grindr that I did not recognize. Seemed like an okay guy at first. He was very good looking in the picture and his profile looked good. But the longer the conversation continued, the more red flags I saw.
At first he talked about how he could never meet a guy that he had met online. But then he kept complaining about how people found him unattractive. I realize everybody has their own tastes, and I like to make my own decisions. And then he went into great detail about a guy he had over and how hot this guy was. He had the perfect body. He did send me a picture of the guy, and he had a nice body. But then he told me how he kept messaging this guy every time he saw him online. Then he told me how the guy had blocked him.
After chatting for about 15 minutes, I finally realized I knew him. About 20 years ago, he tried to pick me up at the local gay bar. At the time was when I was dating my 1st boyfriend. He was disappointed that I wasn't single at the time and he stopped acknowledging me when he would see me at the bar.
A few years later, we ran into each other again at the bar and I let him know I was single. He let me know that he was interested and gave me his phone number. A few days later, I saw him online (probably AOL at the time) and made plans for me to go to his place. We never did discuss what we were going to do or if it was a booty call. But I went over to his place at the time we had discussed. I knocked on the door, which he opened and told me that it wasn't going to work and I needed to leave. I never made it inside, I never even got a hello. I was pretty pissed off, so I blocked him.
All of the sudden, I realized how messed up this guy is and I couldn't get out of the conversation fast enough. Each time I saw him online after that, he would message me. At first I was polite and would chat for a minute, but finally I had to block him. The problem I am having now is he seems to delete his account after a couple of weeks and then he creates a new one. And then the messages start up again.
Have you ever dealt with a guy who just won't go away???
At first he talked about how he could never meet a guy that he had met online. But then he kept complaining about how people found him unattractive. I realize everybody has their own tastes, and I like to make my own decisions. And then he went into great detail about a guy he had over and how hot this guy was. He had the perfect body. He did send me a picture of the guy, and he had a nice body. But then he told me how he kept messaging this guy every time he saw him online. Then he told me how the guy had blocked him.
After chatting for about 15 minutes, I finally realized I knew him. About 20 years ago, he tried to pick me up at the local gay bar. At the time was when I was dating my 1st boyfriend. He was disappointed that I wasn't single at the time and he stopped acknowledging me when he would see me at the bar.
A few years later, we ran into each other again at the bar and I let him know I was single. He let me know that he was interested and gave me his phone number. A few days later, I saw him online (probably AOL at the time) and made plans for me to go to his place. We never did discuss what we were going to do or if it was a booty call. But I went over to his place at the time we had discussed. I knocked on the door, which he opened and told me that it wasn't going to work and I needed to leave. I never made it inside, I never even got a hello. I was pretty pissed off, so I blocked him.
All of the sudden, I realized how messed up this guy is and I couldn't get out of the conversation fast enough. Each time I saw him online after that, he would message me. At first I was polite and would chat for a minute, but finally I had to block him. The problem I am having now is he seems to delete his account after a couple of weeks and then he creates a new one. And then the messages start up again.
Have you ever dealt with a guy who just won't go away???
