Up until my late 30's, I always thought anal play was taboo... like it was just wrong, like it was an 'exit, not an entrance'. But, discovering the dark depths of porn on the internet showed me otherwise.
There were men with various anal-related play activities, and my curiosity was piqued! I wanted to know their pleasure.
Needless to say, the hygiene factor was a learning curve in itself. But getting past that took hardly no time at all. Also, I was married to a woman that would never go on my anal exploration journey with me, so I knew I would be alone.
I would go to adult stores and buy a small dildo to experiment with, but I never achieved the elusive prostate orgasm. Years went by trying and trying and trying. I never gave up, because while I never felt the anal pleasures promised in the porn industry, it would at least lead to a stimulating penile orgasm.
Fast-forward a few years, a divorce, and a new girlfriend later, and my journey was starting to take a new direction.
One evening during foreplay, I casually told my girlfriend that I had been on a prostate orgasm journey, but unsuccessful. Without hesitation, she said, "Lets see what we can do about that."
The next weekend, we went to the adult store and picked out a few toys - one being a strap-on dildo and harness for her to wear. She let me pick the dildo size. I ended up going with the medium one in their selection.
Took us a little while to get the position, rhythm, and comfort level right. Oh, and public service announcement... use LOTS of lube!!
Didn't achieve the prostate orgasm that first night, but had one hell of a good time trying!
This led to many more pegging moments. Some in the morning, some in the evenings, and several different positions.
Needless to say, I have gotten my prostate orgasm many times since then.
I'll make more blog posts on this topic in the future. Message me if you have questions or want to chat about it.
There were men with various anal-related play activities, and my curiosity was piqued! I wanted to know their pleasure.
Needless to say, the hygiene factor was a learning curve in itself. But getting past that took hardly no time at all. Also, I was married to a woman that would never go on my anal exploration journey with me, so I knew I would be alone.
I would go to adult stores and buy a small dildo to experiment with, but I never achieved the elusive prostate orgasm. Years went by trying and trying and trying. I never gave up, because while I never felt the anal pleasures promised in the porn industry, it would at least lead to a stimulating penile orgasm.
Fast-forward a few years, a divorce, and a new girlfriend later, and my journey was starting to take a new direction.
One evening during foreplay, I casually told my girlfriend that I had been on a prostate orgasm journey, but unsuccessful. Without hesitation, she said, "Lets see what we can do about that."
The next weekend, we went to the adult store and picked out a few toys - one being a strap-on dildo and harness for her to wear. She let me pick the dildo size. I ended up going with the medium one in their selection.
Took us a little while to get the position, rhythm, and comfort level right. Oh, and public service announcement... use LOTS of lube!!
Didn't achieve the prostate orgasm that first night, but had one hell of a good time trying!
This led to many more pegging moments. Some in the morning, some in the evenings, and several different positions.
Needless to say, I have gotten my prostate orgasm many times since then.
I'll make more blog posts on this topic in the future. Message me if you have questions or want to chat about it.
