big girls= gross girls?

So, I have a little dilemma thats been bothering me. Since when do girls who are on the chubby side not do well in bed, or are otherwise ugly? As for myself, no I am not small by any means. I do have a very large chest and a average tummy that would fit along with it I guess. But I am not huge nor am I bad in bed; least that's what I'm told. I don't understand why so many men are put off simply because their girlfriend or whatever is bigger than them. My bf loves my body, and he is def smaller than me. So I guess I just don't understand where this all stems from. Is it because society tells us if a girl is not super thin she is fat and ugly? Maybe because men look at skinny women all the time in skimpy outfits; if a girl is not part of that she's not worth the time? In my personal experience, men in general don't like my body or they just don't say anything. Are all men like this? Or are some willing to try something new? a little extra doesn't mean its going to be hard to do anything :D. Trust me....

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You're mistaken :)
Not all men are. I for one am offput by women who are far too skinny. The best sex i've ever had was with a larger women.
 
It all comes down to personal preference. What goes on in a girl's head is the most important thing to me. I'm worried by a person's body if it's unhealthily thin or fat, and somewhere in the middle looks best IMHO. I just think it's a good thing we're not all alike. Most important is to be healthy and live a long and happy life.
 
As the two posters above have said, generally people like things in the middle. There are studies out there done on this issue and they found that men would prefer a bigger girl over a skinny girl [sic].

So where is the disconnect.

Society through media I believe has taught us that women are supposed to be Barbies. So in a social setting it is hard for a guy to say that he likes bigger girls because to society, it will look like he has lower standards (or even on deep psychological level, that he wants to procreate with someone that is potentially "less healthy" than someone else).

With that said, I am very open about liking "bigger" girls. In fact I have a date with a girl that I am pretty sure is heavier than me on Saturday!

On a side note - if you have a BF that likes what your momma gave you... who cares what all the shallow dudes want!? Let em chase the Barbies!
 
Like what's already been said, it's mainly a matter of personal preference. Some of us are drawn to tight athletic bodies, while others like partners with something extra to grab on to.

What I've found is that it's much more about how a person's spirit shines through their physicalities which makes one sexy or not. I have a friend, Kate, who's way on the heavy side of zaftig, who drives all the boys wild--just because of her great personality. I've also known many women who could be models (some were) who weren't sexy at all because their personalities were so lame.

And by the way, I've been blessed with many pleasurable memories from romps in the bed with young ladies who wore plus sizes.
 
I've never had a problem getting guys and I am a BBW. I feel that if you embrace it, it is the confidence that attracts a lot of them. I love my huge ass and love the men who love it! :eek:) They will just have to deal with the tummy lol.
 
In total agreement with Plug_it_in.

I thought I was whacko for thinking that men want to be able to gloat about "that hot chick" they're seen with. Just from being on here, I've noticed that men love a body they can grab with both hands and not be holding onto bone; may as well wank if that's all you want!
 
Hi, I wrote on your other blog as well. I definitely do NOT like skinny women. They look sick to me. I have been with a woman in the past that was quite a bit heavier than I am, and I was fine with that. There is a woman at work I am very attracted to, who outweighs me by quite a bit. I like a woman to look like a woman, and it definitely sounds like you do!
 

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