So twice last week I chatted back and forth with a guy on Sniffies. His profile didn't mention PnP. On mine I clearly state "no chems" "no Pnp" (drugs). We had great back and forth. Exchanged body pics. He said he'd top me. We decide last night to meet today. And then he let's it slip...
"Call me in the morning because sometimes I stay up all night". Then he tells me he "smokes". Now a tobacco smoker is a enough of a turn off for me. But then I put two and two together. I ask "what kind of smoke"... Big pause. Then responds "I won't bring that with me". I say no thanks and block him.
This is not the first time. It seems the Tops around me tend to be party boys. Maybe that's how they can perform? Not sure. But something to consider when vetting your partners.
"Call me in the morning because sometimes I stay up all night". Then he tells me he "smokes". Now a tobacco smoker is a enough of a turn off for me. But then I put two and two together. I ask "what kind of smoke"... Big pause. Then responds "I won't bring that with me". I say no thanks and block him.
This is not the first time. It seems the Tops around me tend to be party boys. Maybe that's how they can perform? Not sure. But something to consider when vetting your partners.
