Hungry

Cross-posted from Hungry

I've spent too much time on weird websites chatting with desperate men. Especially during the pandemic. Talking about sex and looking at dick pics. But no amount of porn or dirty chat can really satisfy me, because what I really crave is so much harder to find. I need a deep, lasting, in-person male friendship.

It's like I've been hungry for a meal of real emotional connection for years, but I keep eating sugar to tide me over, again and again. It's rotting my teeth and I never feel full.

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I know exactly what you mean. I am so fortunate my best friend became my fuck buddy prior to COVID so I have him both intellectually and sexually. Because of COVID it does make it very challenging to form those deeper connections.

I joined LPSG to look at hot men pix and show off my own, but along the way also formed a few deeper relationships. These are guys I will never meet but we have become emotional support systems for each other.

I hope you will soon succeed in your quest to fill your hunger.

Alex
 
Feel for you man. Geography is the culprit for so many of us. I've been off work for months now. Have had the time but not the connections. Either too far away. Or can't host (biggest problem). And of course covid. The tough part is when meeting a cool guy online, having a great stroke session, but too far away.
 
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yah covid took a hit on friendships. peoples irresponsibility just made me drift apart. even from people i thought would be in my life forever. at first i was like whatever, but now its hitting hard a few months later. i hope i find bonds that compare to the ones i lost but i truly feel like that wont happen. it seems like some others are in the same boat. i hope we can all stay positive during these crazy times. stay safe everyone
 
I feel this. It’s all a bit unsatisfying even hot and distraction.
I have met a guy from here before and we struck up a really nice friendship and connection. He was pretty straight but we fooled around a bit. I saw an escort about a year ago who I’ve also got a nice friendship with. It definitely feels more fulfilling to hang with people in person and talk without boundaries.
 
Thank goodness for LPSG and the chance to look if not to touch, to wank and enjoy avatars like yours so full of promise hoping that round the corner, down the road things will be different and we can enjoy at least some same room company followed by pressing the flesh. Gosh I m iss the simple things in life like patting a guys ass.
 
Are you in/near a city that has radical faeries in it?

The name initially sounds weird - but it's just men to willingly decide to take the time to listen and to speak and to open their hearts (heart circles occur online as well as in person).

Could be one extra venue to find moments of authenticity.
 
A meeting of minds and a meeting of spirits is just the beginning but soon there will be a meeting of the bodies.
Just a word of caution, one prick in the arm doesn't mean you can throw caution to the winds, wait for the second prick plus 2 weeks then go find real pricks.
Then hopefully the sugar fixes and one hand clapping can cease.
 
I hear you and feel you as I transition into early 40s too. Love what us guys share on here but real life thoughts wander too in my part of country as well. Appreciate the posts I relate to too.
 

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