Emotional triggers

I have been out with one of my recycling/litter patrol crews all week. One guy is approx 67 yrs old- a bit fragile, has had heart troubles. But if he didn't come to work, well... he'd just wither away and die. I cut him some slack on the physically demanding tasks, yet he always wants to 'do his best for me'. Watching him today, joking around, and seeing the fragility of his aging.... man I've had a lump in my throat all day. I LOVE HIM.....I dont want to be his boss when he dies- I can't take the pain... why on earth do I have thoughts like this, and worry about something that hasn't happened? I need to practice more on enjoying him TODAY.. finding the pleasure in the silly, odd bits of joy he brings to my life. oh hell. Just needed to vent. I get so emotionally attached, all my crews have individual traits that touch my heart in some way... its hard not to become attached to them, to care for them. *sigh*

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I think this just another one of those things that makes you human and a good person. You have compassion and care about the people around you.

So many people don't care about anything these days. :frown1:

People like you make the world a nicer place. :smile:
 
NJ's right. You are a truly wonderful spirit in the world.

If it makes you feel better, I sometimes get teary eyed at night watching the baby sleeping and praying I am there for her through her adolescence and beyond. Losing my mom at 19 and father at 24, I'm scared of following in their footsteps.

So I know how you feel.
 
It is wonderful thing to care so very much for people...but never let it get it the way of your enjoyment of them. I suspect that, if the worst should happen and that man passes on while in your employ, he would have left this world feeling loved and appreciated. What more could we want?

And...how the hell can I get on one of your crews! LOL
 
I hear your need to begin practicing enjoying today. I'm working on that one as well for much the same reason.

Your thoughtful description of the man's physical condition tells me you're already doing a good job of observation and recognition of your feelings. Those are important steps on the road to happiness and fulfillment. I find that admirable.
 
it makes me feel better, knowing I'm not some anomaly for feeling as I do. I found myself sobbing today as I watched a documentary about the atrocities in Darfur. I always want to DO SOMETHING. But I think my karma lies with what I am doing, making life better for another population of people who have been persecuted historically, just because they were 'different'. and I will continue to do so, always, cos its who I am. Thanks for understanding. :hug:
 
I definitely think it makes you a nice person. And you help keep the 67 yo guy active where he would otherwise be alone.
 

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