Yes, it has finally happened. I met a lovely lady from this site. To perserve her privacy, I will not be naming her name, either her real or username.
I have been on this site for a while, looking to meet someone for... mutual enjoyment shall we say. The problem is the M:F ratio on here is naturally going to be stacked in favour of the men. Then you have to take into account that most of the users (at least in my experience) are US based. THEN you have to consider that some are not her to meet. So "viable" meets partners are very, very hard to find.
I forget who contacted who originally, but I'm going to guess it was me messaging her. It turned out that she lived fairly close to somewhere I used to live, and travelled to sometimes for work or visiting friends/family. I feel this help build a connection.
We exchanged chat details and talked more. We decided we wanted to meet, but working out a plan was tricky due to job and other commitments. Eventually we just went for it and I made the journey to see her.
I am not going to go into details, but it went very well
I know I enjoyed the experience and she has said it was fun for her too. I got to experience some new... techniques and she got what she needed. We are going to meet up again for sure.
Now while I would like her to be able to come forward and give me a full recommendation as TOTALLY NOT AN AXE MURDERER I respect her privacy as I couldn't imagine the amount of PMs she would get asking for meets knowing that she has already done it.
The short version of this:
For the guys; YES there are genuine ladies on here wanting to meet, you just have to go about it the right way. It is NEVER certain it's going to happen to you, but you never know. Being in the USA will probably increase your chances tenfold though due to the demographic of the site.
For the ladies; I AM TOTALLY NOT AN AXE MURDERER. Yes, you can safely meet people from the net if you wish, but PLEASE be careful. Make sure it is on YOUR terms. Make sure the boundaries have been set and don't promise anything. Basically, play it safe.
Yeah I know, long post is long. But I wanted to inform people that IT IS possible to meet others on here SAFELY and have FUN. This was going to be a post about everything we got up to but I feel this is a better use of the experience.
To you, mystery lady, I thank you for a wonderful time. Hopefully our next meet is not far in the future. X
I have been on this site for a while, looking to meet someone for... mutual enjoyment shall we say. The problem is the M:F ratio on here is naturally going to be stacked in favour of the men. Then you have to take into account that most of the users (at least in my experience) are US based. THEN you have to consider that some are not her to meet. So "viable" meets partners are very, very hard to find.
I forget who contacted who originally, but I'm going to guess it was me messaging her. It turned out that she lived fairly close to somewhere I used to live, and travelled to sometimes for work or visiting friends/family. I feel this help build a connection.
We exchanged chat details and talked more. We decided we wanted to meet, but working out a plan was tricky due to job and other commitments. Eventually we just went for it and I made the journey to see her.
I am not going to go into details, but it went very well
I know I enjoyed the experience and she has said it was fun for her too. I got to experience some new... techniques and she got what she needed. We are going to meet up again for sure.Now while I would like her to be able to come forward and give me a full recommendation as TOTALLY NOT AN AXE MURDERER I respect her privacy as I couldn't imagine the amount of PMs she would get asking for meets knowing that she has already done it.
The short version of this:
For the guys; YES there are genuine ladies on here wanting to meet, you just have to go about it the right way. It is NEVER certain it's going to happen to you, but you never know. Being in the USA will probably increase your chances tenfold though due to the demographic of the site.
For the ladies; I AM TOTALLY NOT AN AXE MURDERER. Yes, you can safely meet people from the net if you wish, but PLEASE be careful. Make sure it is on YOUR terms. Make sure the boundaries have been set and don't promise anything. Basically, play it safe.
Yeah I know, long post is long. But I wanted to inform people that IT IS possible to meet others on here SAFELY and have FUN. This was going to be a post about everything we got up to but I feel this is a better use of the experience.
To you, mystery lady, I thank you for a wonderful time. Hopefully our next meet is not far in the future. X
