He proposed

I guess I'll use this blog as a place to think out loud, maybe?
he asked me to marry him. Ive been asked by others before him, but never wanted to. Till now.
Is 6 months not enough? How is it I know he is the most perfect man for me? Puts up with my moods with a smile, he is never cross, easy to get on with, tho a virgin when we met he is fucking awesome now.
He is crap at handyman stuff. No auto servicing or faucet repair happening, I do my best to do it myself. Its not a deal breaker.
But I am scared. Without knowing why.
Must ponder this some more. Thanks for listening.:smile:

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Love knows no time limit. I do believe in love at first sight. If you have had the prudence to say no to the others before, you obviously see something in this one.

Take the plunge I say.
 
my husband and i had been dating for 8 months on the day we got married. 6.5 years later, we've beaten a lot of the odds anyway. if your hesitation is rational, think on it. if it's just plain fear, disregard it.

my husband was terrible at handyman stuff when we got married, but he's gotten a lot better. if this guy could improve in bed, he could improve everywhere. that's what marriage is all about anyway-- making each other better through your relationship.

good luck!
 
Go with your gut! :smile:

He just might be 'the one' Osiris is right, you said no to all the others for a reason.

So what if he can't fix things! :confused: Don't y'all have the yellow pages in Seattle? :tongue: Seriously, if that's the only thing you can find wrong with him, he's a keeper.

I know I often sound like a cold hearted cynic in the threads, but I do believe in true love and love at first site. It has been 6 months, so it's not like he didn't take his time to think about it. :wink:
 
Thanks, ya'll. :kiss: He is such a super guy, he just wants to take care of me forever, and Ive never felt more loved, unconditionally.... not judged or criticized.. he truly is a wonder, this man I met on LPSG. Who'd uh thunk it?
oh I feel all mushy now gonna go kiss for awhile.:biggrin1:
 
I'm so happy for you! I know we haven't spoken much lately, but I still consider you a friend, I'm sure you remember why. :smile:

"Is 6 months enough?"

When it's right, then it's right. No time-frame involved; I now know this from experience. :biggrin1:
 
Just make sure there are no doubts.
No doubts.
No regrets.
No regrets, great possibilities =]

hope you dont mind the random message from a random person.
 
no rush. I can't be rushed or I run. and today feels like a running day but for no reason other than the voices in my head.
 
Husband Number 1= 3 months= Divorce

Husband Number 2= 3 months= 20 years marriage.


SassySpy follow your heart......forget the voices.
 

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