Why is having children so important for people? Especially those strict about wanting 3-4 kids.... ridiculous. I could understand this coming from a female but I just don't get it with males.
I'm either abnormal or my 'biological clock' is on the fritz.
Anyway, stems from this guy and I hitting things off pretty well until I found out he would not settle for not having at least 3-4 kids. I do not and have not ever wanted to raise even a single child. He cast me off because of this.
I would have had one, but I always wanted to be married first.
So I never had the chance... Now that I am much older, I don't have the time let alone want to be 70 watching a graduation.
Now for some odd reason I see many peeps who have spent their lives going from college to get a BA or Masters, and working in the corporate world, end up with 3 or 4 children. Like their whole lives that they missed out on, are now played out by their offspring.
With the complications of growing up, I could not keep up with that many children and their issues. I would prolly hoard em away so they would not see the world as it is in reality.