I was messaging on a different platform a guy locally about possibly meeting. He messaged me when I got to the gym. He loved my body and wanted to feel deep inside me. I checked out his profile and he said he's straight and a Dom. I asked "Do you have experience making a bottom feel comfortable? I haven't bottomed in over a year and I am apprehensive." He replied that he's comfortable as a top. He just started having sex with men and it feels wonderful and much better than "pussy sex." He said he'll spit on my hole and finger me and slide in slow. I cringed.
This sort of guy is not safe for those who may be apprehensive about bottoming for the first time or are highly sensitive. I told him it probably won't work out because I might be more needing a lot more foreplay to get me to relax than he's offering.
Guys, if you are a top or Dom top who are looking for holes to satisfy your need, remember your pole will almost always automatically pleasured but the hole you're seeking may not always be automatically pleasured by your pole. Some of us are more sensitive and need foreplay or special, relaxing attention. Keep that in mind.
This sort of guy is not safe for those who may be apprehensive about bottoming for the first time or are highly sensitive. I told him it probably won't work out because I might be more needing a lot more foreplay to get me to relax than he's offering.
Guys, if you are a top or Dom top who are looking for holes to satisfy your need, remember your pole will almost always automatically pleasured but the hole you're seeking may not always be automatically pleasured by your pole. Some of us are more sensitive and need foreplay or special, relaxing attention. Keep that in mind.
