SPH = Small penis...honesty

Different strokes for different folks. There are as many different fetishes in the BDSM community as there are personalities. I'm not a research psychologist and I can't explain why some seemingly normal folks have what some would consider to be strange kinks. Some get off on being tied up while others like pain. I fall into the SPH sub-genre of kinks, but I don't refer to it as “small penis humiliation;” rather, I prefer “small penis honesty.”


Compared to the mean of the men on this site, I'm fall well short of their length and girth. Compared to most of the published means that I've seen, I fall short in both length and girth. So what. I can't change the size of my cock. Besides, I wouldn't want to change the size of my cock. I'm quite happy with it. It does what I want, when I want it, and I've gotten many, many compliments on my activities in the bedroom, including intercourse.


What really fucking rocks my boat, however, is knowing that I don't measure up to what a girl has experienced in the past. If a girl wants to make me crazy, tell me that I don't feel anything your last boyfriend, the biggest you've had. Tell me that you wished I could be deeper inside of you; tell me you wished I was thicker so that I could spread you out. In other words, be honest with me. I know I've got a smaller-average-cock, that doesn't bother me. Just let me know how I measure up. That'll send me over the edge in a heartbeat. There's no need to call me worthless because my cock isn't more than 5.25 inches long. Firstly, I don't really care and secondly, I'm pretty damn self confident, so it's not going to make me feel bad.


Compare me to your big toys, your big ex-boyfriends. Let me use your favorite dildo on you. Seeing how you react to a big toy or cock, seeing how much you can take, then putting my own little cock inside of you is just fantastic. I love knowing that you can take so much more than I can give. I love feeling lost inside of you, knowing that you can take so much more. Being inside of you and feeling that extra room that a larger cock could fill up? Holy shit, that'll make me orgasm.


Why does this do it for me? Beats me. It's a kink. I don't know what the psychology is behind it. Compared to most men that are into the “classic” definition of SPH, I'm just not into the mocking aspect of it. Cocks come in a range of sizes and my genes have given me one one the left side of the distribution. That doesn't bother me. I don't get off on being told that I'm less than a man than someone with a massive johnson because I know that's not true. I don't think that men with larger willies than mine are any better than I just because they have better genes; that's just silly. I'm just not into the humiliation aspect of SPH. I'm just honest about my little willy.


I guess the long story short to this is that not all men that enjoy SPH have bought into the “bigger cocks are better,” the “I'm not worthy of being inside of you,” or the “I'm less than a man than someone with a big willy” aspect of SPH. I like my cock, many women have liked my cock, and my cock is just as good as someone else's. It's just smaller, and I know it. So tell me. Tell me how I compare to your previous lovers. That'll rock my world.
genre of kinks, but I don't refer to it as “small penis humiliation;” rather, I prefer “small penis honesty.”


Compared to the mean of the men on this site, I'm fall well short of their length and girth. Compared to most of the published means that I've seen, I fall short in both length and girth. So what. I can't change the size of my cock. Besides, I wouldn't want to change the size of my cock. I'm quite happy with it. It does what I want, when I want it, and I've gotten many, many compliments on my activities in the bedroom, including intercourse.


What really fucking rocks my boat, however, is knowing that I don't measure up to what a girl has experienced in the past. If a girl wants to make me crazy, tell me that I don't feel anything your last boyfriend, the biggest you've had. Tell me that you wished I could be deeper inside of you; tell me you wished I was thicker so that I could spread you out. In other words, be honest with me. I know I've got a smaller-average-cock, that doesn't bother me. Just let me know how I measure up. That'll send me over the edge in a heartbeat. There's no need to call me worthless because my cock isn't more than 5.25 inches long. Firstly, I don't really care and secondly, I'm pretty damn self confident, so it's not going to make me feel bad.


Compare me to your big toys, your big ex-boyfriends. Let me use your favorite dildo on you. Seeing how you react to a big toy or cock, seeing how much you can take, then putting my own little cock inside of you is just fantastic. I love knowing that you can take so much more than I can give. I love feeling lost inside of you, knowing that you can take so much more. Being inside of you and feeling that extra room that a larger cock could fill up? Holy shit, that'll make me orgasm.


Why does this do it for me? Beats me. It's a kink. I don't know what the psychology is behind it. Compared to most men that are into the “classic” definition of SPH, I'm just not into the mocking aspect of it. Cocks come in a range of sizes and my genes have given me one one the left side of the distribution. That doesn't bother me. I don't get off on being told that I'm less than a man than someone with a massive johnson because I know that's not true. I don't think that men with larger willies than mine are any better than I just because they have better genes; that's just silly. I'm just not into the humiliation aspect of SPH. I'm just honest about my little willy.


I guess the long story short to this is that not all men that enjoy SPH have bought into the “bigger cocks are better,” the “I'm not worthy of being inside of you,” or the “I'm less than a man than someone with a big willy” aspect of SPH. I like my cock, many women have liked my cock, and my cock is just as good as someone else's. It's just smaller, and I know it. So tell me. Tell me how I compare to your previous lovers. That'll rock my world.

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Very interesting post. Like you, I am not into humiliation at all. What I do like is seeing another man, particularly one with a big cock, fucking my wife. I would love for her to express how much better it feels to be really full and stretched. But she claims that that is not the case. She says that sex with me is the best. But I would still love to see a buddy's cock do things for her that mine can't.
 
What I have taken to be the biological fact is that a vagina has nerve endings in the the first 3-4inches only. That being said, I would guess that 3-4 would be enough for a woman to get some type of sensation. I would guess that there are as many lengths and girths as there are different shapes of people. This is the LPSG. One thing is for sure, I didn't know that I was considered large. But based on what I've seen on this site I am on the upper part of average AND I would venture to say that the 5.25 is on the low end of average. But what do I know?
 

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