What to do after Orgasm

Howdy folks, I have had a sex encounter recently and self examined that after I orgasmed I really was not all that turned on any more. I felt like I was a mess and didnt even want to look at the man that was orgasming next to me.!! he stood up right beside me (now that I am thinking about it he wanted me to see it) and I turned my head the other way!! I guess I am just not that into him?? I feel that I should come first now days because I invite them over and all, and being a gracious host that I should give them the show. But after I come I am all like...uuuggghhhh!!! Any thoughts?

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My first question would be if these are random guys or guys you're dating? The key difference I'm looking for is feelings. Do you feel anything other than attraction to these individuals? Love and tenderness and all that flowery junk.
 
Sometimes I feel that way too... especially if I am watching porn. After I have cum, I will turn it off, or delete it because I dont' want it anymore.

I think it depends on the connection you have with the person. Hugo's right. The better the connection, the more you may want to look.

However, if this becomes a problem, I suggest you try to not cum until after he has.
 
that happens to me too.. and yeah, i think hugo is right that you need a deeper connection than just physical attraction.. because if you are only hooking up with some random guy to blow your load, then once it happens, you will be satisfied

whereas, if you are dating a guy and have a deep connection with him, it wont just be sexual, it will be sensual and you will want to be there
 
You mean all men don't just roll over and go to sleep afterwards? :confused:

Sorry, OP but the guys are correct. :redface: Sounds like you need to start fucking people you actually care about. You may even want to have a :gasp: relationship.
 
If I orgasm before my wife,I take great pleasure in watching and helping her get there.Like NJ said a relationship.
 
Years ago when I smoked cigarettes, I would enjoy a cigarette after orgasm.

Now, having not smoked for ten years, I enjoy the moment.
 

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