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I asked this in the "Ask A Man Section" and someone asked me to post it here. Is sex something you require in a long term relationship? Personally, I would prefer a sexless relationship, but that's just me. How important is sex to you?

So, my wife is going through menopause and my size is becoming an issue. She is tighter, less wet, tearing and in pain when we have sex. Needless to say, we are not have sex as often. When we do, we use ALLOT of lube and it does help, but I was wondering if there was anything else we should...