advice

  1. M

    I’m suddenly besties with a straight guy and my gaydar is pinging…

    Must sound like a broken record with this. I posted in on reddit a few days ago for advice and WOW. First and last time going on there. Cut-throat. (Please be gentle!) “Gay guy here. So last year I added a straight guy on Facebook who I saw at a friend’s wedding a few days earlier. Totally...
  2. I

    Drunk sex with straight best friend - doesn't remember

    Really debated posting this but I feel I have nobody else to talk to about it and it's driving me insane and completely consuming my thoughts. So me and my best friend have known eachother about 18 years now. I'm openly bisexual and have been for a number of years now and he was actually the...
  3. Hauga

    Flirting advice

    I need help. I’m not that good at flirting and I need some advice from this community! So, I’m 30 and I’m finishing my degree. In one networking event/conference, I met a guy that works in the industry and helped me with my portfolio. I sensed some kind of flirting going on, but the event ended...
  4. T

    How do I top and then some?

    Hey everyone, I'll try to make a long story short. I'm 23M and have been bisexual for as long as I can remember. However, I've only started experimenting with guys about a year ago. Up until January 2023 I had been too scared to try anything with a guy. I'd never dated a guy, romantically liked...
  5. T

    How do I top and then some?

    Hey you guys, I'll try to make a long story short. I'm 23M and have been bisexual for as long as I can remember. However, I've only started experimenting with guys about a year ago. Up until January 2023 I had been too scared to try anything with a guy. I'd never dated a guy, romantically liked...
  6. J

    Flirting with a top

    I have a coworker that I have previously turned down but i enjoy teasing him and he’s still into it. We now pretend we’re not into each other but we both know it’s a lie. We work in retail so I want to know things I can do to get him horny whilst also being discreet and acting innocent. (He’s...
  7. T

    Being “sexually selfish”

    Has anyone on here ever found themselves being sexually selfish? Hopefully that’s the right term for what I have in mind. But if so, what did you do to overcome it? I have a (bad) habit of wanting to pack up and leave once I meet up with someone and bust one. Prior to us meeting, I’m full of...
  8. T

    We ended things and now I feel broken

    I'm sorry for the long post in advance, but I could really use some advice right because I just don't feel good at all. I can't remember the last time I've felt this way. I'm (24M) bisexual and have never dated a guy until a couple of months ago. Honestly, this was the year (Late January) that...
  9. T

    We ended things and now I feel broken

    I'm sorry for the long post in advance, but I could really use some advice right because I just don't feel good at all. I can't remember the last time I've felt this way. I'm (24M) bisexual and have never dated a guy until a couple of months ago. Honestly, this was the year (Late January) that...
  10. JellyBen36

    Question about dildo riding video preference

    For videos of a femboy (me) riding a dildo, what camera view do people prefer?
  11. K

    Do you believe in labels? I think I'm bisexual, because gay and straight don't feel right to me.

    I've always been sexually attracted to dudes. I've just never called it "attraction". I went to an all-boys high school, and I would get the butterflies whenever I saw a good-looking classmate of mine. I've never acted on those feelings, because I again I didn't know that it was an attraction...
  12. D

    Cruising advice

    Hi I’d like to start cruising at urinals and understall but I got not much experience. I’d love a teacher or someone to give me advice, visuals and feedback. I’m in Canada QC that would help also. You can send me messages also if you want Thanks in advance
  13. S

    Getting circumcised at 30 (U.K.)

    Hello, after struggling even worse than usual for the past year or so with tight foreskin, and trying steroid creams and stretching, the doctors have basically said I need to get cut. I’m debating the stapler method and would appreciate any advice from anyone who’s been cut later in life...
  14. D

    Me (31M) and Him (25M) we are coworkers that have gotten fairly close and now its confusing

    Both myself and my coworker (I'll call him M) are openly gay. M started working in my department roughly 5 months ago. We started talking casually about work and then moved things over to telegram (messaging). We started talking daily and eventually hung out one on one a few times as well as...
  15. M

    Only Straight/Curious Guys Snapchat Group

    Add me on snap: Jordzy07 The more people I get, maybe around 10, the group will be made and the link will be posted. Looking for guys between the ages of 25-40. Fit or somewhat fit, making their way into working out. We’ll allow discussions about: -turn ons -sharing pics and giving compliments...
  16. masc4thanos

    Average and Below Average Guys: How did you make peace with your penis size and overcome envy/insecurity.

    Lately I've been experiencing some deep disdain for my penis size (I'm roughly 5-6 inches) and it's led to me having a lot of penis envy and jealously toward guys that are well-hung. It feels unfair quite frankly. It's like some guys hit the genetic lottery (big dick, great body, great face) and...
  17. X

    Tips on DP?

    Provide any tips you have on someone wanting to stretch their hole to prepare for an anal double penetration?
  18. K

    How to avoid Influencer Crushes/Break out of this Loop?

    This is going to sound really stupid and pathetic but i'm just going to be super vulnerable and hope no one laughs. I've been in a constant loop of having crushes on different influencers on both instagram and tiktok. What usually happens is i'll scroll through tiktok, come across a really hot...
  19. U

    Issues with my friend with benefits

    I'd like to make a long story short but at the same time, I'd like to explain things as best as possible. Please bare with me. I'm bisexual (24 years old), I've come to accept that. I am DL though. For future reference in this post, I wanna state that I'm genuinely not romantically interested...
  20. U

    Issue With My Friend With Benefits

    I'd like to make a long story short but at the same time, I'd like to explain things as best as possible. Please bare with me. I'm bisexual (24 years old), I've come to accept that. I am DL though. For future reference in this post, I wanna state that I'm genuinely not romantically interested...
  21. A

    Wrinkly/Scaly Foreskin Texture helpp

    PLEASEEE don't judge. I kinda wanted to avoid this but honestly i'm desperate to get this resolved. I tried a different site but there were no responses. So, the upper part of my shlong has like this weird texture. It doesn't feel weird, it just looks weird I guess. It's wrinkly like it has...
  22. J

    Remaining fat to lose (Do I cut or recomp?) Advice needed!

    Hey, In need of some advice from those of you who are into fitness/gym. So I'm coming to the end of my weight loss journey. I currently weigh 170lbs at 6ft 1, early 20s, cis man. I used to be 230-240lbs. Was eating 1600 or so calories but now I eat about 1800-1900. Although I look somewhat fine...
  23. L

    Advice for bottoming

    Hi! I’m newer to sex and I’m unsure about a couple of things regarding bottoming My boyfriend and I have been experimenting with a lot of things but for some reason bottoming is strange to me. Is there any way to minimize the pain? My boyfriend and I are on the larger side of things but he...
  24. P

    Butt Acne/Folluculitis. Help me please!

    Hey! I'm a 22 yr old guy, healthy weight for my height. For the past 5+ years I've really struggled with butt acne... which, as you can imagine, is pretty embarrassing. I'm not talking a couple pimples, it covers a lot of my cheeks and I have some scars from previous pimples. I've tried...
  25. K

    22 y/o Gay Virgin (Need Advice/Rant)

    Hey, new here. I usually lurk but thought I'd spark some discussion and ask for advice. Soo pretty much what the title says. I'm 22, I graduated last year, still a virgin. Backstory: I was always pretty overweight and dealt with some insecurities. After I graduated I decided i'd get my shit...
  26. Y

    Newly committed

    Hey guys, Am 22 and I started dating my boyfriend since September and we officially became together since February. The problem is I guess I am a polyamorous and I know for sure he is a monogamous. We live in a homophobic country, you can imagine the risks, so we have zero to little sexual...
  27. abdu.exe

    First time

    Hi, I'm 20 gay and still a virgin I wanna have sex for the first time but I don't know how. Like how am I supposed to prepare? what should I expect? how do I even get someone to do it with? Any advice?
  28. abdu.exe

    I don't wanna be a virgin

    I'm 20 and gay. For the longest time, I couldn't hook up with anyone because of where I lived, but now I have the freedom to do anything but I'm scared I'm a virgin and I don't like it, the only experience I've had was sucking my friend off and nothing else. I wanna experience sex, but I'm...
  29. D

    Feeling excluded at rugby

    I feel like the guys on my rugby team treat me differently. Recently moved and joined a new club. Finding it hard to fit in. Any advice?
  30. W

    Seducing the curious one?

    It's probably one of the most stupid question I've asked my entire life, but I have a crush on - let's call him a classmate. I'm pretty sure he's straight. He is soooo cute, but unfortunately at first he wasn't ok even with simple flirting (he was super shy) and I was like "ok, that's the...