discrimination

  1. bigboaster

    "We all want what we can't have" is such BS

    Not sure anyone cares about this but... I see people use this phrase ALL the time on here. "We all want what we can have" Usually whenever a discussion comes up (in the context of gay men) about being attracted to straight men (usually exclusively). But it can also apply to anyone with very...
  2. AboSarieli

    Historical step for gay rights in my ultraconservative country (Romania)

    Romania condemned by European court for violating rights of LGBT couples Not sure what the future holds, since many people are against sexual minorities in Romania, but it seems the Romanian Government lost against the European court... and rightfully so. Now they'll most likely have to...
  3. B

    Short hung guy. Invisibility/Fetishisation

    Hello everyone! As a starting point, let me share a bit about my experience. I’m a 28yo white man living in central europe, 1,70 m (5’7”), fit yet rather skinny, with dick size at 21x15 cm (8,25x6 in.) and quite introverted/reserved. When I go to cruising bars and remain in the less sexual...
  4. C

    Micro agressions in sex

    Hey all I just wanted to talk about something I don’t often feel comfortable discussing with my friends. I am a Middle Eastern gay guy and I am very comfortable with where I am from and I can be very “middle eastern” but I feel crappy when guys call me “exotic” or use other words with the same...
  5. 6

    Should I change my appearance? I'm tired of the double standards & discrimination online....

    I'm undesirable. I was a late bloomer - and women always were angry when I asked them out back then. I'm 25 now, and people think I'm younger, because of my "baby face". On dating apps, I get rejected for various reasons - my cock is too small (I'm 4" soft and 7" hard), "You're not my type" (I...
  6. M

    Why And How Often Do You Block People On Grindr/other Sites?

    While updating Grindr, I noticed a review complaining about the app because of a (bullshit) restriction on number of blocks each day. Some people are using the "block" option differently to me - I might ignore or stop responding to other users, or tell them I'm not interested, but I use...
  7. JayPR

    It's A Man's World We Live In. Do You Believe That Or Do You Think Men Are Oppressed?

    For centuries, men have been the ones with the power in societies across the world. Last century, women started to acquire power in the west. But to this day, this is still a Man's world. True or False? Why do so many men feel that this is not true? What do you think about this? Are men...
  8. H

    Heterohobia,biphobia And My Thought On Bisexuality

    First of all,I mean no offense to bi people but it can’t be denied that I’m somewhat a biphobe.I have those weird feelings towards straight or bi men,like when I see a hot guy,the very first thing I want to know is his sexual orientation and if it’s str8 or bi,it immediately turns me off.I know...
  9. E

    A Taste Of Discrimination--i Won't Ask For More

    I am a fifty-nine year-old white man. A few days ago, I experienced the feeling of discrimination for the first time in my life. I was born with a cleft palate, so I know what what it is like to be teased and made fun of by others. Even into adulthood I still get comments on my crooked nose. I...