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Hi guys. I recently found out one of my kinks, which is perfectly illustrated with the videos linked below. Basically I'm looking for videos of a penis inside a vagina but not moving. I think I like the contractions that come with trying to resist the urge to thrust. Especially when watching...

So, especially with a condom, it's hard to cum while fucking a guy. I often finish by hand, after the bottom has cum. As a bottom, do you consider that an insult or something? I had a guy just tell me I should have been able to cum inside him, and he seemed pissed off. Wha??