manipulation

Hey guys, Im looking for some stories with a manipulative bottom, who knows hes strong in appearance and sex skill, that can drive all straight/married men crazy. The only thing I know up until now is https://www.nifty.org/nifty/gay/authoritarian/adventures-of-a-manipulative-bottom/ But sadly...

So I came across this term the other day and I was wondering if I could be enlightened on the dynamics of this term. Is it an overall negative term and something offensive? I'm sorry if it is, I'm just a very curious person. I seen it used negatively from the definition example given. Like do...