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  1. AboSarieli

    Question about humiliation in a BDSM context

    Humiliation may be my favorite festish, especially when it is done to masculine, intelligent, confident and dominant men. My question is: is it possible for a (male) dom to succesfully humiliate a (male) sub in private (in person or online), with the only two of them participating and noone...
  2. Psychotherapy : Have you addressed your Trauma? Dr Paul Conti in an interview about Trauma

    Psychotherapy : Have you addressed your Trauma? Dr Paul Conti in an interview about Trauma

    So, in my frustration of feeling like I wasn’t getting anywhere, the question about Trauma arose within me, very strongly in 2020. I was actually listening to a podcast from Lewis Howes with Jordan Peterson when I found Dr Paul Conti. The podcast is entitled: Trauma: The Invisible Epidemic &...
  3. <Insert Suitable Blog Name>

    Covert shaming, personal opinion versus fact

    Remember to keep personal opinions separate from factual statements. If you have the opinion of "bigger is better" for yourself then make sure it is stated as such. If you state it as cold, hard facts then you're going to need to learn to deal with what you stated. If you seek my investment...
  4. N

    Guilt After First Gay Sexual Encounter

    Sorry if this has been covered already. Have people (men and women) had to deal with a lot of guilt (or maybe just mixed feelings) after their first sexual encounter with the same sex? I really aiming this question at those who were first in hetero relationships and then sometime later had...