“you Got A Boner In Front Of Him!”

[StaringIsCaring]

Once was at a friends house and when we left my husband went on a 2 hour yelling rampage saying how when I stood up I had a boner and the boyfriend saw it and looked at my husband. Another gay couple.

There is zero possibility of this and no way I had a boner. Maybe indented a way that wasn’t good but no boner.

It was this chat or another later one I banned him from talking about dick stuff ever again because it got out of control.

Have you had anything like this happen?

 

[StaringIsCaring]

He acted like me talking to one guy gave me the boner but it didn’t and I didn’t have one.

 

[Tight_End_SC]

IMO, I think your husband can find other things to get upset about. Insecurity issues it what may be causing this. Yelling for two hours is unacceptable no matter what.

 

[ohiorod]

No, I haven’t had anything like this happen to me and quite honestly, if it did, it wouldn’t happen again. Was alcohol involved in this rant? I sure hope, for your sake, that this yelling episode is isolated to a single occurrence.

 

[StaringIsCaring]

No alcohol just didn’t like that I got a (not) boner in front of gay friends and one looked at it then looked at him. I know I should totally feel so stupid and bad for that when I told him tons of times I had no boner.

Very uptight about nudity stuff though I’ve noticed and tended to lash out with questions about it in weird ways until I called him on his rude comments.

 

[Freakzoid]

Peak insecurity, your man has some real problems/issues

Why is a boner something to be so mad about anyways? Your husband should be proud. I’d look at your friend like “yeah that’s my dick, the dick belongs to me”. The shared horror of a boner between your friend and husband is weird and it sounds like y’all got some underlying issues

 

[LilJock]

I think your husband has problems. My wife and I are totally in love with each other, but that doesn't mean we still don't find others physically attractive at times. Since we're both good-looking, we also receive our fair share of flirting. When she sees me subtly (or not-so--subtly) ogling another woman, she tweaks me good-humoredly about it later on (and vice a versa). It's no big deal as long is it doesn't translate into something more troubling. An unreasonable reaction like you describe is a sign of insecurity and problems in the relationship that need to be examined.