So I feel kind of ashamed and I’m ready for people to judge, but I’ve been in an LDR DL relationship with a straight guy for 13 months now.
I am very confused and we are having probably the hardest time imaginable. A lot of people tell me, “Wow you’re dating a straight guy” but it’s not all that magical, not only is his sex drive EXTREMELY LOW, but being on the DL has become kind of hard. He has lied to me plenty of times now, do I think he’s cheated? Probably not physically, but I’m still wondering and trust has been broken already. He wants us to fix things but it’s kind of hard to. The thing that kind of pulls me in is that he does call me every night, and although our texting and communication has dwindled because of fear of arguing and such, we have had some little hints that something is still there.
I’m very confused and was wondering if someone is in a similar or has been in this kind of situation? He’s a nice guy, just has a problem with insecurity and being honest.
I am very confused and we are having probably the hardest time imaginable. A lot of people tell me, “Wow you’re dating a straight guy” but it’s not all that magical, not only is his sex drive EXTREMELY LOW, but being on the DL has become kind of hard. He has lied to me plenty of times now, do I think he’s cheated? Probably not physically, but I’m still wondering and trust has been broken already. He wants us to fix things but it’s kind of hard to. The thing that kind of pulls me in is that he does call me every night, and although our texting and communication has dwindled because of fear of arguing and such, we have had some little hints that something is still there.
I’m very confused and was wondering if someone is in a similar or has been in this kind of situation? He’s a nice guy, just has a problem with insecurity and being honest.