First, the experience is going to vary based on a lot of factors. The absolutely BEST thing you can do, is find a guy you trust to guide you through the process. You're going to be experiencing a lot of emotions and a lot of sensations. You'll want somebody there you can take your time with and who will not only be patient, but who will give you some pointers.
Sex is different every time. That's why some guys (myself included) sleep around. When I get a blowjob from a guy with puffy lips, it's tends to be soft whereas getting a blowjob from somebody with thin lips is firm. It's also going to depend on his technique. Does he use a lot of hand motion or just lips? Does he want to do it on his knees with me standing or does he want to lie on his back on the side of the bed while I deep throat face fuck him? There is a lot of variation. Unless he's really bad at it (scraping his teeth or doing something weird with his tongue), it's going to feel really good. If you're cut, it may not be enough sensation to get you to an orgasm. At least, that's true for me. It feels good, but not enough to finish. If you have foreskin, you'll not only be more sensitive, you'll have more sensations and options for oral sex that cut guys don't have.
As far as giving oral sex, again, it's going to vary from experience to experience. You may have a strong gag reflex. Don't feel like you need to deep throat somebody because you've seen it in porn. Sex is supposed to be fun. If it doesn't feel good, stop and do something else. But, if getting face fucked and gagging gets you off, do it!
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Be careful with scraping your teeth. Chances are, your jaw is going to hurt when you're done. You'll want to use lips, tongue, and hand together. Don't worry about it for now, you'll catch on and, again, find somebody to guide you. You'll smell his junk. Unless he just showered, it will be musky... it will be VERY musky if he has jock itch. Some guys like it. But I prefer to foreplay in the shower before sex.
Generally, I like guys with skinnier cocks. I don't like having a sore jaw after getting head. And, while I prefer to top, if he wants to top, I find skinny cocks still hit all the spots without a lot of the pain. So, don't think that just because guys in porn are huge that you're actually going to enjoy a huge cock.
As for topping, the next time you're in the shower, soap up your hands. Now make the OK sign, only make it tightly so you can't even push a pencil through the opening. Now try to push your cock through the opening. As you push and keep pushing, slowly release the OK sign until you can just barely push through. You should now have a very tight ring around your cock. If you thrust in and out, you can loosen the ring a little bit more, but still keep it pretty tight. That's basically what anal sex feels like for the top. Nearly all of the sensation is from the sphincter.
With bottoming, it's going to be a very intense sensation. You'll want to be well lubed. Like... a lot. More than you think. This will be your first time and you're not going to know how to relax. So lube is your friend here. If you can find a guy with a thinner cock, start with that. You'll probably be best squatting over him. That way you're completely controlling the speed and depth. (It's harder than it looks and easier to do on the floor than a squishy mattress.) It's going to be a challenge getting his dick inside. Your instinct is going to be to clinch. The best way to avoid this is to push out, like you're taking a dump. (Side note, be sure you are completely empty down there. Douche if you want, but even if you don't douche, be sure you've completely emptied your bowels). As you push out, you're actually opening up your sphincter, and that will let his cock in. After it's in, you're still going to want to cinch down. Again, push out whenever you get that sensation. It's probably going to be painful. I don't know any first timers who don't feel pain. It will feel like you tore something. And you probably did. You'll probably also feel a sharp pain if he goes in too deep too fast. You'll need to take a moment after he's in to simply relax and adjust. At first, it's probably only going to feel uncomfortable. BUT.... after he starts thrusting, the sensation starts to change from pain and pressure to something more intense that's hard to describe. Of all of the sex acts guys can do, bottoming is by far the most intense feeling. There's a reason why it seems like every gay guy is a bottom. Most guys find that they cum very quickly if they bottom. I know some bottoms who won't even touch themselves because they'll cum right away.
I'm not sure if this is what you're looking for. Don't be afraid of it. Know that it's going to be an overwhelming experience your first time. Find somebody you trust to do it with you. I've deflowered a few virgins, all of whom I've met online. Only one of them told me he was a virgin, the others didn't tell me until after. I prefer to know in advance because it's so much better to have your first time with somebody who takes their time to show you the ropes, rather than just another hook up.
Have fun and use a condom.
Hey so I’m sadly still a virgin but I have a few questions for anyone who is experienced in sex. My first question is what is anal sex like? from both sides giving and receiving describe everything if possible. My second and last question is what is oral sex like so blow jobs and ass eating I would like both sides giving and receiving to also describe everything if possible. Thank you to who ever responds hope you all are having a good day / night where ever you are in the word.