Advice for an average looking guy with a huuuuge dick

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I’m extremely shy, and people tend to look through me or forget my name, etc. because I’m not exactly traditionally good looking. Nor do I go to the gym, so although I’m not overweight my body is extremely average-looking. I’ve never in my entire life been the chasee, only the chaser, let’s put it like that.
But every time I hook up with a guy (which isn’t very often as I’m a massive loner), said guy always comments on my massive penis, and how I ‘must get any gay guy I want’ with it.
But I don’t. Not that I’d want to either, but at least somebody to like me would be nice. Clearly my personality doesn’t scream “he’s got a huge dick under those clothes”… but how on earth would I put such a thing out there if I WERE to want that sort of attention? Other than wearing no underwear, letting it hang, etc?

I just want a bf tbh but I’m nearly 40 and nobody’s ever been interested. So any help would be great!
 
I've always been far more attracted to average-looking guys. I would take an average-looking man with an average-looking body (regardless of dick size) any day over a chiseled hunk. I remember a guy from college who caught my eye. Average-looking fellow with an average body, slightly overweight, kind of quiet and very easy to overlook. Not a guy who would turn heads, but to me he was quite attractive and obviously turned my head. Well, one day I happened to catch him in the shower room in our dorm, and holy fucking shit, he had an absolutely huge dick. By far one of the biggest I'd ever seen, if not the biggest. I've thought about him quite a bit over the years. :blush:

The fact that you have a massive dick is definitely a huge asset (pun intended), especially in the gay world. I think you need to get some good pics of yourself, obviously of your dick but also of your entire body. Sure, you're gonna get quite a few "wow, that's a big dick!" comments, but there are guys out there who will notice and appreciate the whole package, not just what's between your legs. Then it will be a matter of connecting with someone and seeing if your personalities mesh. Think about your positive qualities in addition to your big dick and go from there.

BTW, cute guys look past me all the time too, even though I always check them out. I'm an average-looking guy myself (face and body) with an average-sized penis. I've never turned heads. However, I'm friendly and outgoing, plus I give really good head. :yum I married a wonderful man many years ago and we've built a very happy life together. So I'm proof positive that average guys can live happily ever after. :emoji_heart:

Good luck! :kissing_heart:
 
I'd say if you want attention for your dick, just use grindr. Aren't we all sending our dickpics after chatting for 1 minute anyway?
And if you want people to truly like you for you, not for your dick, I think you just have to be out there more.
If you only meet 5 new people in a year, you can't expect them to be exactly that person.
Go out more. Meet people through a hobby. Or just be a slut on grindr, it's one way to get to know more people. But chances are higher they only want to meet u for ur cock.
And not everyone wants the perfect looking guy. A lot of people actually like the average guys. Even more if they have a great personallity. (and cock xD)
 
I've always been far more attracted to average-looking guys. I would take an average-looking man with an average-looking body (regardless of dick size) any day over a chiseled hunk. I remember a guy from college who caught my eye. Average-looking fellow with an average body, slightly overweight, kind of quiet and very easy to overlook. Not a guy who would turn heads, but to me he was quite attractive and obviously turned my head. Well, one day I happened to catch him in the shower room in our dorm, and holy fucking shit, he had an absolutely huge dick. By far one of the biggest I'd ever seen, if not the biggest. I've thought about him quite a bit over the years. :blush:

The fact that you have a massive dick is definitely a huge asset (pun intended), especially in the gay world. I think you need to get some good pics of yourself, obviously of your dick but also of your entire body. Sure, you're gonna get quite a few "wow, that's a big dick!" comments, but there are guys out there who will notice and appreciate the whole package, not just what's between your legs. Then it will be a matter of connecting with someone and seeing if your personalities mesh. Think about your positive qualities in addition to your big dick and go from there.

BTW, cute guys look past me all the time too, even though I always check them out. I'm an average-looking guy myself (face and body) with an average-sized penis. I've never turned heads. However, I'm friendly and outgoing, plus I give really good head. :yum I married a wonderful man many years ago and we've built a very happy life together. So I'm proof positive that average guys can live happily ever after.

I was going to say the same thing. Average/dorky/nerdy/shy guys are my favorites. Muscles are a turn-off, chiseled hunks no way.

Even though you may be blessed down there, you don't want that to be the only thing that people are attracted to. You may want to use it to grab attention, but I think you'll be attracting the wrong type than you're looking for.

It's not always easy, but build some confidence in yourself, and always be yourself, I'm sure there are lots of people who would find you attractive regardless of dick size. Everyone has different tastes, that's all.
 
I was going to say the same thing. Average/dorky/nerdy/shy guys are my favorites. Muscles are a turn-off, chiseled hunks no way.

Even though you may be blessed down there, you don't want that to be the only thing that people are attracted to. You may want to use it to grab attention, but I think you'll be attracting the wrong type than you're looking for.

It's not always easy, but build some confidence in yourself, and always be yourself, I'm sure there are lots of people who would find you attractive regardless of dick size. Everyone has different tastes, that's all.

And I would add, I think it would (to me anyway) be better to find out later that you're hung, not ahead of time. I'd be like wow, you're cute and huge down there, win/win. :)
 
I would say that a lot of guys (who arent twinks and/or older than 26ish) are attracted to confidence. you dont have to be the best looking person, physically (but beauty is in the eye of the beholder, dont forget!) but the way you hold yourself is also important. do your clothes fit properly? are you confident when you talk, do you engage in meaningful conversation, do you flirt? do you have interests that people want to know about? are you passionate about what you do each day?

my personal opinion is that if you're dating, then you need to have something unique that makes someone want to talk to you for more than a minute... you have to be attractive just to that person - not everyone.

but if you're walking around a bathhouse advertising your physical gifts, then yes you wont have a problem there.

and you know what -- you can develop a meaningful relationship with someone who met you at a bathhouse ok!
 
My favorite male playmate isn't good looking, by anyone's standards, but he has a thick 7+ inch cock I love to suck and be fucked by.
Go ahead and get out there with your personality and looks. Someone will be attracted to you and want sex.
 
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Years ago I met a guy on a site where they studied foreign languages. Was Italian like me but knew Spanish perfectly, so corrected my online exercises. We became friends and we talked a lot. He wasn’t beautiful and he definitely didn’t have a chiseled body, but was good and had a beautiful character.
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We met after many months of chatting on video call, he was shy, very shy.
When he "got rid" of shyness and clothes I saw his body: tall and sooo skinny, but when I saw his cock I thought: God exists!
I didn’t even know he could have a Boa constrictor in his pants!!!
Plus, in bed, he was hot despite being inexperienced!
Moral: we got engaged, it was a beautiful relationship of sincere love!

Make yourself known and the beautiful things inside you, the beautiful thing that you have below will be a welcome gift to anyone
 
I will sort of echo what’s been said and be careful about leading with your cock. There are too many people out there who will try to build a relationship with you or will only want you, just because you have a big dick. Sad but true.

Question: Have you considered at friends you already have? Someone who already knows you and already cares for you, regardless of that monster in your pants.