Advice for getting over FinDom fetish?

[deleted10664731]

I am addicted to FinDom. It’s become a huge turn on for me to pay tribute to guys who are really hung, especially if they’re straight.

I recognize it’s the dumbest fetish there is, and I’m just throwing money away, but it’s still a turn on.

I’ll quit for a while, but always end up downloading cashapp again, and falling back into it.

Any advice on how to get over an unhealthy fetish?

 

[THEPIGSQUEEZER]

Its not throwing away money more than any other hobby or anything that makes you feel good.

 

[deleted10664731]

Its not throwing away money more than any other hobby or anything that makes you feel good.

I guess so. My other hobbies aren’t so expensive lol

 

[nickistans]

I’m in the same predicament. but i can control how much i send, i always focus on that. try not to send above your means, and enjoy it for what it is. straight guys >>

 

[deleted10664731]

I’m in the same predicament. but i can control how much i send, i always focus on that. try not to send above your means, and enjoy it for what it is. straight guys >>

I guess that’s a reasonable approach. I just seem to have little self control when it comes to hung straight guys

 

[nickistans]

I guess that’s a reasonable approach. I just seem to have little self control when it comes to hung straight guys

do you have any favorite guys? i use twitter and there’s a lot of guys there

 

[deleted10664731]

do you have any favorite guys? i use twitter and there’s a lot of guys there

I deleted Twitter. Mostly I just chat with guys on Reddit

 

[23235111]

I am addicted to FinDom. It’s become a huge turn on for me to pay tribute to guys who are really hung, especially if they’re straight.

I recognize it’s the dumbest fetish there is, and I’m just throwing money away, but it’s still a turn on.

I’ll quit for a while, but always end up downloading cashapp again, and falling back into it.

Any advice on how to get over an unhealthy fetish?

do you think you really want to stop? I don’t know about unhealthy if makes you happy.

 

[deleted10664731]

do you think you really want to stop? I don’t know about unhealthy if makes you happy.

I don’t want to stop. I just think I should lol

 

[23235111]

I don’t want to stop. I just think I should lol

You will figure it out.
Just don’t catch feelings for any of them.

 

[eshmun]

I’m in the same predicament. but i can control how much i send, i always focus on that. try not to send above your means, and enjoy it for what it is. straight guys >>

I just hope our straight young brothers understand that that is a small kinky minority of gays who get hard beeing a sub and pay money for the straight and get humiliated.

 

[ILoveGames48]

What is findom

 

[BigDan285]

Like @THEPIGSQUEEZER said, it's a hobby and you spend money on it honestly in the same way as people spend their money on video games or a new baseball bat.

My advice would be, if you can, set up an account you will use exclusively for paying your doms and transfer however much you're comfortable spending in a month to that account. Once that account reaches zero, you don't add more money to it until the next month. I know it's possible you will end up just topping it up anyway, but maybe when the account reaches zero it'll at least make you think for a min, and it'll be a reminder that you are in control and you can choose not to add more money until the next month

I really hope you can get to a place you're happy with financially, because you deserve to enjoy your hobby while being financially secure

 

[BigDan285]

What is findom

it's getting off on sending money to someone and being under their control in that way. It's quite normal for the sub to send their dom money, and for the dom to insult them in return, or treat them badly, and this is part findom

 

[BigDan285]

I just hope our straight young brothers understand that that is a small kinky minority of gays who get hard beeing a sub and pay money for the straight and get humiliated.

I hope so too...

I enjoy doing calls where a straight guy will show off in his underwear and talk down to me, insult me etc. and I accept that I need to pay in order to get that service, but I don't enjoy the payment element of it. So I'm not into findom, it just so happens that straight guys don't tend to do these things for free

 

[Carthagonova]

We both live in Washington. We should chat

 

[donaldlam]

You don't get over it, you just submit to a new master.
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Very nice, Sir.

 

[LJJCATT]

I’m looking for a cashpig