Advice- Hit on by Married Guys

[rubgyshorts]

Hey guys,
Honest question that perplexes me a bit.
I'm a gay man who for some reason consistently attracts guys I can't form a relationship with-- i.e. straight/married men. I suspect because I am often alone, 'masculine looking', without a wedding ring and/or approachable.
Straight guys will often hit on me, talk about their wives and kids... and as the conversation progresses they are the ones that usually make a move.
This might sound silly but the constant talk of their wife and youngest son or daughter makes me feel a little strange while they are inviting me to their hotel/apartment. I sometimes don't know how to handle the situation.
Lots of dimensions here... would love to hear your thoughts.

 

[Rooker]

Congratulations, you must be so attractive that you can make 100% straight guys reevaluate everything in their life for just one moment with you.

Wield your power carefully. There are a lot of happy people out there that just could not handle being exposed to your wiles.

 

[Sagittarius84]

You don't attract straight men. You attract closeted bisexual and bi curious men that tend to see you as the safest or most surefire way to get their rocks off without affecting the family they have(it will, eventually).
I'm not here to preach to you about what you should do just a helpful word of advice: don't engage in any sexual/romantic relationship with a heterosexually married man, unless his wife is trying to watch or participate.

 

[ronin001]

I am single, masculine, often alone, no ring; and for some reason my being hit on is none to minimal.
To the OP, I have stated once or twice here that a man looking to get sex, may resort to tricks or just lie.

Based on my years on LPSG, some bi / gay man may say that they are married or straight. This may help in some instance to increase their chances of getting sex.

The stories about :

The confused straight guy who just wants to explore his sexuality, if he can find the right guy.
The wife pegs me sometimes; but I want to try the real thing one day.
The guy who is married, but the wife stopped giving him oral years ago.
The guy, who is married; but looking for a suck buddy
The guy with a wife; but she is bad at oral
The guy who confesses, the best oral he has ever had was a drink night in college with a room mate

I don't believe in doing this. But assuming that gay guys have the ability to lie with equal frequency as straight guys, to get laid. Then pretty much anything legal is on the table to get sex.

 

[cofrader]

Congratulations, you must be so attractive that you can make 100% straight guys reevaluate everything in their life for just one moment with you.

With great power comes great responsibility, he would be the one that explains why their parents are getting divorce? Be the change you want in the world, If he really had second thought he wouldn't be messing with married people.

https://imgur.com/Gt9o86q

 

[thickcockjames]

I’d say that’s your conscience talking. Are you essentially the person they are cheating on their family with? Them continuing to talk about the ones they are willingly hurting is pretty low IMO.

If they are doing it on the up and up and their wives are okay with it. That’s another thing. Maybe that’s your self worth talking, and you’re wanting a little more than just sex.

 

[x911xxx]

I just made a post about noticeable uptick in married men wanting to hook up over the past couple of years.

 

[ronin001]

I just made a post about noticeable uptick in married men wanting to hook up over the past couple of years.

I am replying to a key part of your post " Over a couple of years" . since 2021, you kind of generally post about being Bisexual, looking for Bi hook ups, bottoming for guys, blowing guys and how to attract guys. All great postings, all entertaining. I respect and I support your membership and content.

I, in no way challenge your self classification, however your posting history, may possibly lean you just a little more into the Bi classification, than the Straight classification the answers in this section generally follow.

I have not had coffee yet, so please excuse my poor grammar.

Cheers

 

[notthatguy]

Straight men don't hit on gay male..... period.