Here are my list for guys to successfully date a tgirl.
1. Treat us like any other girl. The minute you start to talk about your fantasies etc it comes off a bit creepy and you look like a chaser ( you dont want to be a chaser)
2. Dont expect sex. If you are buying us dinner that doesn't entitle you to sex. So dont be that guy that gets all creepy at the end of the sate trying to get some. And when you do get intimate dont expect the girls to let you play with their Penis, Many have Genital disphoria and wont enjoy any penis interaction.
3. Be respectful. We know you know we have a penis. This doesnt give you the right to talka bout it, ask questions, etc etc etc.
4.Be Confident. Nothing kills the vibe more then acting like you have to hide us. if you cant tell we were once men then everyone else generally cant. So taking us to the shady dark corner of the bar will make us feel like Swamp Monsters and not score you a second date.
5. Have fun. Most of us are used to being treated like sex toys men can pull out of their tickle trunk when they want to get some, and throw us away when they are done. This generally leaves most of us a bit jaded and think all men just want to fuck us. Dont be that guy. We aren't pokemon you dont need to catch us all. So show us you are actually interested in us, be creative with your dates, and be a gentleman. Remember a sense of humour is the number one most attractive feature
I hope that semi helped. Just remember we are just like every other girl out there.WE all want the sweet guy on a white horse to come save us from our troubles.
if you are just looking for sex. Find an escort