Advices for a healthy bottoming hygiene

[kinkyfrench13]

Hi, everyone,
I'm looking for advices on bottoming. I'm a recurrent user of sex toys (more or less 7.5x6.5 inch) and I've just acquired a good big dildo (9x7.8, Sir Peter's dildo).
Obviously, with this kind of dildo, an enema is a must. But here's the problem: very often, after playing, I get a stomachache that lasts for days. And I also notice that I'm constipated for about 2-3 days without knowing why. From what I've read, enemas tend to prevent constipation, but in this case, I don't go to the toilet (everything settles afterwards).

I'm keen to hear advices from people experienced with big dildos: how do you do your enema? Just the rectum or further up? As for me, I use my shower hose and not an enema bulb. I always wash further than my rectum.

I also use a lot of lubricant when I play that deep, but I notice that sometimes I get little red marks when the lubricant comes out of my hole. Same thing here, I'm taking advice on how to achieve deep penetration without hurting yourself. On this subject, I haven't hurt myself, even when there aren't these problems of red marks, constipation occurs after penetration.

Thank you for all your advice, because all this makes the after-sex quite complicated!

 

[LPSG Support]

Hi. I don't have an answer for you but I'm hoping some other users do

 

[kinkyfrench13]

Thank you !

 

[bravesoldier]

I kind of think there's not an absolute hygienic solution when using dildos that penetrate deeply. My experience with dildo play (which I absolutely love) is if I don't go deeper than 7-8 inches after a good flush, I don't have hygiene problems. When I douche and flush more, trying to get deeply clean it rarely works with absolutely no cleanliness issues. Once or twice I had total success but that's it. Penetrating that deep just seems to have hygiene risks and I guess it always will. I learned recently I can go very deep inside, but it takes a lot of exploring, patience and learning. I have learned that I won't hurt myself with the right, flexible dildo and the dildo will turn and bend with my colon after passing the second hole. In my wildest dreams I never thought I'd successfully get that deep in my gut and experience the mind-blowing sensations of being filled, stretched and penetrated at that depth. Also, to love the mixture of some discomfort and pressure combined with intense sexual pleasure. To achieve this pleasure, acclimate your rectum and colon slowly, Approach the second hole slowly but deliberately. With a flexible dildo, after teasing and acclimating at the second hole I have found if I push with enough firm but gentle pressure, the dildo will bend and go straight beyond the curve in the colon. I felt pressure at this point but not pain. Bravery is another must, and determination. A higher discomfort tolerance is an absolute also, as reaching this level of pleasure is not for the weak at heart. For me it was and still is a slow and gradual progression that is simply mind blowing as far as the level of sexual pleasure it brings. I have also mastered taking very large girth, as in 8 inches of girth. If you attempt huge girth, you may think your hole won't take it, but it will, and you probably won't rupture any skin unless you're trying for something beyond 8 inches of girth. I've found my hole is quite tough and resilient.

The best advice is do anything deep and girthy very slow. It won't happen overnight and takes more determination than you may think.

 

[chrisrobin]

Take it slow, dont go to extreme girth and make sure your dildo is flexible. Like all artificial anal stimulants there's always the excitement of going big and heavy when for the maximum pleasure it should be applied sure but slow and when you feel you've gone far enough stop, tomorrow is another day for fun.
When my buddy comes over for some dildo sex the fun and sexual stimulation is being "done" by another hand but one who knows no means no I can cum off easily hands-free, and so can he.