When we first dated, my girlfriend (now wife), used to give me handjobs using Vaseline Intensive Care lotion and that was the first time I had ever experienced a lubed handjob or masturbation. Now, at age 67, I've tried all kinds of lube. Astroglide, Albolene, coconut oil, KY jelly. Albolene is terrific but is not water soluble so cleaning up, even in a shower, takes a little effort. I really like coconut oil but have only used it while traveling alone. Here at home, I couldn't possibly hide the smell from my wife.