Am I a twink or an otter?

[notmyjam]

I don’t define myself as a twink, but a lot of guys have told me that I am – just bc of my skinny appearance.
In my view a twink has no hair, no beard and looks like teen. If I had to guess i would say I’m much more of an otter and yet for what I’ve seen…I’m too skinny for that. What do you think? Or there is no category for me?

 

[dana2]

You are you. Too many gay men feel like they must define themselves as something: twink, bear, otter, daddy, whatever. You don't need to buy into that. You have an extremely attractive body, just be yourself and don't let others define you.

 

[notmyjam]

you're right, but i get that a lot and i tend to overthink it at times. Im new at this, i was in the closet for a long time lmao
thank you @dana2

 

[Sturdywords]

If you like guys who are big and/or hairy, then identifying as an otter may help you connect

 

[just rodger]

I would not consider you a twink.
You have a nice body, nothing wrong with it.

 

[theplayerking]

I don’t define myself as a twink, but a lot of guys have told me that I am – just bc of my skinny appearance.
In my view a twink has no hair, no beard and looks like teen. If I had to guess i would say I’m much more of an otter and yet for what I’ve seen…I’m too skinny for that. What do you think? Or there is no category for me?

All these labels are silly and subjective, but in my experience otters are generally ageless. The moniker implies a moderate amount of chest hair and a trim to athletic build. I would say you’re a sexy, young otter. Grr!

 

[dreambridger]

I don't care honestly, I just identify you as "hot"

 

[Sturdywords]

TWOINKTTER

... and very sexy!

 

[mxguy52]

You are absolutely not a twink because I find you attractive