Am I gay?

[terroi]

I was just sucking on the big fat cock of a married guy but I was (and still am) drunk lol. He told me he doesn't believe me it's my first time sucking cock but that might've been an encouragement. It was really fucking fat tho and I was afraid I might puke because he started to fuck my face at one point. But anyway, I didn't cum, I never even got hard and now I'm thinking if I'm even gay. Sorry for drunk thread to anyone reading but have no idea what to think lmao.

Also should I get tested for anything? He didn't cum either cuz I had to stop sucking

 

[Kanashi]

was it your first time?

not every gay guy enjoys being on the receiving end of oral sex.

it is possible to transmit STD's via oral sex even if the person receiving it doesn't come.

 

[terroi]

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was it your first time?

not every gay guy enjoys being on the receiving end of oral sex.

it is possible to transmit STD's via oral sex even if the person receiving it doesn't come.

Yeah it was my first time haha

 

[Nath33t]

Not necessarily. Sexuality isn’t black and white - just because you did a ‘gay thing’ doesn’t make you gay.

Even though you didn’t get hard, did you enjoy it? Are you generally attracted to men and has the experience made you want to be more intimate with other men?

Sounds like it could’ve just been some drunk fooling around (some straight guys have/do experiment, but it doesn’t affect who they are romantically/physically attracted to).

 

[coordinatedchaos]

depends. you don't have to label yourself. imho, i believe any gay act makes a person at least bi.

 

[theplayerking]

I was just sucking on the big fat cock of a married guy but I was (and still am) drunk lol. He told me he doesn't believe me it's my first time sucking cock but that might've been an encouragement. It was really fucking fat tho and I was afraid I might puke because he started to fuck my face at one point. But anyway, I didn't cum, I never even got hard and now I'm thinking if I'm even gay. Sorry for drunk thread to anyone reading but have no idea what to think lmao.

Also should I get tested for anything? He didn't cum either cuz I had to stop sucking

Wait until you’re sober and then ask yourself if you want to do it again.

 

[1eyedJack1123]

All sexually active people should be tested annually for STDs. This includes, HIV, HPV and herpes, gonorrhea, Hep C, and chlamydia. Speak to your doctor if you have any questions.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

All sexually active people should be tested annually for STDs. This includes, HIV, HPV and herpes, gonorrhea, Hep C, and chlamydia. Speak to your doctor if you have any questions.

He asked if he’s gay. Not about diseases

 

[Lil dog]

what were the circumstances that led to you being drunk with a cock in your mouth. but safety first. if you dont know how you ended there (denial) you will not come with protection next time. it will be a very short run of being free and gay before you have a nasty disease. so keep protection on you while u sort it out. (and yeah, he did betray asking and being worried about diseases, this should be brought to the front in the community, not buried)

 

[terroi]

Update: He's healthy and showed me his test results today, will get tested myself just in case but yeah lol.

Also for any confusion: I always thought I was attracted to men but felt nothing that time, that's why I was asking myself if I even am gay. fuck, what if I end up liking women

 

[1eyedJack1123]

He asked if he’s gay. Not about diseases

Please re-read his post. Paragraph 2, line 1. Chill out, Becky.

 

[Samantha V]

I was drunk the first time I sucked cock too. I suppose I was persuaded at the time but afterwards I admitted to myself that I'd liked doing it and intended to do it more. I'm sure I'm not gay but am comfortable being labelled bi.

 

[ILoveGames48]

The thing about one’s sexuality is for most part.. a lot of guys are raised to think that being gay is immoral and wrong.. and even parents and family and even friends would put down gay man by saying “ that nasty fa@@ot .. men sucking dick is nasty and so on..


Not saying this is your issue or not.. but a lot of guys hear this and keep their gay thoughts and feelings hidden within themselves..


Now I was with a guy when I was 32 he was 43 .. just got divorced because his dad passed away and then decided he wasn’t going to hide the fact he was gay anymore .. I was the first guy he was with after the divorce and he told me his story and I was like “ bet them years were rough”


He hated having sex with his wife .. so one day he just decided to tell her he wanted a divorce


So when we went to have sex he wanted fucked so badly but when he saw my cock he’s like be easy and I said do t worry I so t hurt you.. as I wouldn’t want it done to me ( I have had it happen to me but won’t say how)


I’ve had straight guys let me suck their dicks.. even rim their asses .. and then I was surprised when one said he wasn’t wanting to fuck me.. so I let him..



If you set aside “ the label” you been branded with and that being straight .. and explore yourself and other guys you will see both is fun to have sex with one way or the other.


I know a friend on mine says he isn’t gay but tells me house his wife uses a strap on on him and they had variety of dildos to use .. he says it’s not gay since it’s his wife doing it.. I was like ….ummmmm ok..

 

[bbnc44]

and

depends. you don't have to label yourself. imho, i believe any gay act makes a person at least bi.

 

[bbnc44]

and what is considered Gay.? recieving? sucking too.? touching cocks.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

The thing about one’s sexuality is for most part.. a lot of guys are raised to think that being gay is immoral and wrong.. and even parents and family and even friends would put down gay man by saying “ that nasty fa@@ot .. men sucking dick is nasty and so on..


Not saying this is your issue or not.. but a lot of guys hear this and keep their gay thoughts and feelings hidden within themselves..


Now I was with a guy when I was 32 he was 43 .. just got divorced because his dad passed away and then decided he wasn’t going to hide the fact he was gay anymore .. I was the first guy he was with after the divorce and he told me his story and I was like “ bet them years were rough”


He hated having sex with his wife .. so one day he just decided to tell her he wanted a divorce


So when we went to have sex he wanted fucked so badly but when he saw my cock he’s like be easy and I said do t worry I so t hurt you.. as I wouldn’t want it done to me ( I have had it happen to me but won’t say how)


I’ve had straight guys let me suck their dicks.. even rim their asses .. and then I was surprised when one said he wasn’t wanting to fuck me.. so I let him..



If you set aside “ the label” you been branded with and that being straight .. and explore yourself and other guys you will see both is fun to have sex with one way or the other.


I know a friend on mine says he isn’t gay but tells me house his wife uses a strap on on him and they had variety of dildos to use .. he says it’s not gay since it’s his wife doing it.. I was like ….ummmmm ok..

Anal play isn’t gay

 

[coordinatedchaos]

and what is considered Gay.? recieving? sucking too.? touching cocks.

it's obvious, isn't it? anything sexual. a man touching a woman's boob isn't gay.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

The thing about one’s sexuality is for most part.. a lot of guys are raised to think that being gay is immoral and wrong.. and even parents and family and even friends would put down gay man by saying “ that nasty fa@@ot .. men sucking dick is nasty and so on..


Not saying this is your issue or not.. but a lot of guys hear this and keep their gay thoughts and feelings hidden within themselves..


Now I was with a guy when I was 32 he was 43 .. just got divorced because his dad passed away and then decided he wasn’t going to hide the fact he was gay anymore .. I was the first guy he was with after the divorce and he told me his story and I was like “ bet them years were rough”


He hated having sex with his wife .. so one day he just decided to tell her he wanted a divorce


So when we went to have sex he wanted fucked so badly but when he saw my cock he’s like be easy and I said do t worry I so t hurt you.. as I wouldn’t want it done to me ( I have had it happen to me but won’t say how)


I’ve had straight guys let me suck their dicks.. even rim their asses .. and then I was surprised when one said he wasn’t wanting to fuck me.. so I let him..



If you set aside “ the label” you been branded with and that being straight .. and explore yourself and other guys you will see both is fun to have sex with one way or the other.


I know a friend on mine says he isn’t gay but tells me house his wife uses a strap on on him and they had variety of dildos to use .. he says it’s not gay since it’s his wife doing it.. I was like ….ummmmm ok..

Anal stimulation isn’t inherently gay.