I have heard of tops like Arsenal and PRK from going viral for "gutting a bottom out" and I wonder why this is normal.
I've watched a few of Arsenal's videos and he doesn't even come off gay, let alone like he enjoys sex. I'm no therapist but if I had to guess something happened to him and he uses sex to maintain power. He keeps the bottom's body as far away from his as possible and is absolutely brutal. I understand no emotion in hookups but it honestly feels like he wants to harm the bottoms. It comes off less like sex and more a torture ritual.
Same goes for PRK who allegedly is a therapist. (You know what they say about people who work in psych) He also seems like someone who doesn't enjoy sex and is using it the way somebody might use boxing. The way he has sex is mechanical and as if he is in a deep rage and needs to let off frustrations and burn steam.
It might be sexy to y'all but I wouldn't be surprised if one of these "brutal Black tops" you guys loves harms somebody in a drunken rage....and it just adds to the "masc Black man" stereotype where we cannot show emotion or are seen as "soft".
I've watched a few of Arsenal's videos and he doesn't even come off gay, let alone like he enjoys sex. I'm no therapist but if I had to guess something happened to him and he uses sex to maintain power. He keeps the bottom's body as far away from his as possible and is absolutely brutal. I understand no emotion in hookups but it honestly feels like he wants to harm the bottoms. It comes off less like sex and more a torture ritual.
Same goes for PRK who allegedly is a therapist. (You know what they say about people who work in psych) He also seems like someone who doesn't enjoy sex and is using it the way somebody might use boxing. The way he has sex is mechanical and as if he is in a deep rage and needs to let off frustrations and burn steam.
It might be sexy to y'all but I wouldn't be surprised if one of these "brutal Black tops" you guys loves harms somebody in a drunken rage....and it just adds to the "masc Black man" stereotype where we cannot show emotion or are seen as "soft".