Am I Ugly?

[kililer1]

I've always had issues with my body (i'm fat) and low self esteem and two months ago I decided to download Grindr. From that moment on and to this day I've had little to no interactions in my profile. People won't tap me or even talk to me whatsoever.

Am I ugly? Be completely honest with me. I don't want pity compliments, I just want the truth.

 

[nightsotic]

In my opinion you're not ugly but you look rather bored af on those 2 pictures. I'd choose something more friendly looking - this can do wonders. Unfriendly looking or bored looking pictures wont do well on dating or hooking up platforms, where the focus lies on connecting and socializing with people.

 

[Bananagramz]

Def not uglyyyy! You have a cute face and I clicked on your verification photo and ! People are just shallow.

 

[coolestguy]

You are alright. You just looked uninterested.

 

[trochydroo]

u are really cute, I think u will look even cuter with a smile

 

[aqua-illusion]

No not ugly. but perhaps a smile or an upbeat facial expression will portray a better image.

Looking lethargic or like you don't care isn't always attracting. The key isn't always the physical looks, confidence, friendly demeanor, looking up and forward, and yes...a smile. (although this current generation its apparently insulting to say "you'll look better if you smiled more lol)

 

[BoxersloverCA]

I've always had issues with my body (i'm fat) and low self esteem and two months ago I decided to download Grindr. From that moment on and to this day I've had little to no interactions in my profile. People won't tap me or even talk to me whatsoever.

Am I ugly? Be completely honest with me. I don't want pity compliments, I just want the truth.

Not at all

 

[bravesoldier]

You're not ugly. People keep saying you look bored or uninterested and if so, it's probably because of what you've been through that you have explained. If you are overweight just do it young man.. trim down. You will be amazed at how much better you will feel and look. The lift you will get from being slimmer will be addictive. Lose a little weight and seriously adapt a new lifestyle and a new you. That's what I think you need to do. Do a male makeover. Ask a barber or stylist to suggest a new haircut maybe and get you some new, cool clothes. Just a suggestion.

Do it bro.

 

[saclove]

I've always had issues with my body (i'm fat) and low self esteem and two months ago I decided to download Grindr. From that moment on and to this day I've had little to no interactions in my profile. People won't tap me or even talk to me whatsoever.

Am I ugly? Be completely honest with me. I don't want pity compliments, I just want the truth.

You are not ugly, in fact you are quite handsome. And I wouldn't say your are fat either...a lot of people like someone with a fuller body. I'm sure there are a lot of people who may have looked at your profile that have no idea what they are missing. Hang in there and be thankful for all you have to offer the right person.

 

[Godslittlejoke]

I can offer you platitudes and encouragement all day, but if you can't do the same for yourself, you have deeper issues. I speak from personal experience on this issue. I'm fat, 49, crippled, have PTSD and a little dick. When I exercise, I don't get lean; I get thicker and heavier. I'm 6' and almost 300 pounds. Yeah, I can bench press a Buick and dead lift a tank but I'm not trim and again, I've got a little dick. The thing about apps like Grindr is most of the guys using them have very unrealistic expectations of what they're looking for. I was always told if you want a guy with a six pack, you better have on yourself. If you want a guy with a big dick, you better have one yourself. It sucks ass.
Now let me ask, do you think you're ugly? Are you trying to find a solution or are you being a part of the problem? If you don't want to be put down, present yourself better. Get a haircut that compliments the shape of your face, put on some nice clothes and smile if you can. When I smile, I don't have a cupid's bow, just a straight line. If I smile and show my teeth, animal control shows up. But when they do, they find a well dressed gorilla with a good haircut.
Good luck buddy and don't let the Grindr twats get you down.

 

[Kudo]

No, you are NOT ugly

 

[Mooss]

I've always had issues with my body (i'm fat) and low self esteem and two months ago I decided to download Grindr. From that moment on and to this day I've had little to no interactions in my profile. People won't tap me or even talk to me whatsoever.

Am I ugly? Be completely honest with me. I don't want pity compliments, I just want the truth.

bro I Grindr is hell, its just hook ups and if you arent a 10 people will just ignore you.