Anal tear that won't go away - helppppp

[drumsticks92]

Hey guys, slightly gross/medical question... I've got a tear near my asshole that for several years has with some regularity opened up during a number 2, and especially during sex (while bottoming). It's very painful when this happens and is totally disruptive to my sex life in a way that makes me feel crazy.

I take a fiber supplement, drink lots of water, am fit, etc. I've done courses of treatment with that ointment prescribed for treating this kind of thing with success... but once healed, it still always eventually comes back.

Saw a proctologist about it and he advised that it's simply the kind of thing that will come back potentially forever and requires management. But... I'm wondering whether this is true?? He and other doctors I've seen about it seem to all be straight men who I'm guessing aren't getting fucked regularly, and I can feel that they don't really grasp what a significant thing is for this problem to be ongoing.

I'm wondering whether anyone has any tips, insights, or approaches to dealing with this problem?

 

[phild]

It's not my specialty so I don't know anyone but may I suggest a different starting point and go along to a sexual health clinic such as the John Hunter Clinic at Chelsea & Westminster Hospital. They will at least have staff who understand the scale of your problem and if anywhere can give you pointers about where to go next, they will be able to.

I'll keep thinking and if I come up with any answers I'll post them to you. Part of me thinks this ought to be easily mendable with a couple of stitches after an enema and a thorough rectal exam just to make sure there's nothing hiding or more complex going on. You would need to lay off sex for about a month afterwards but in the scale of life, that's nothing.

 

[drumsticks92]

It's not my specialty so I don't know anyone but may I suggest a different starting point and go along to a sexual health clinic such as the John Hunter Clinic at Chelsea & Westminster Hospital. They will at least have staff who understand the scale of your problem and if anywhere can give you pointers about where to go next, they will be able to.

I'll keep thinking and if I come up with any answers I'll post them to you. Part of me thinks this ought to be easily mendable with a couple of stitches after an enema and a thorough rectal exam just to make sure there's nothing hiding or more complex going on. You would need to lay off sex for about a month afterwards but in the scale of life, that's nothing.

thanks very much for this!! very helpful xx

 

[gloryholesfbay]

I think there are two things that might help: whenever you poop, use a moist toilette not dry paper, and consider applying lotion after each cleaning. Second... always use a lot of lube for anal sex. The tissue inside as on the entry is the thinnest most delicate tissue in your body. And find tops who will lube your hold up with a finger before anything is else is inserted in you. Seriously. LUBE LUBE LUBE. And i recommend silicone based because it doesn't wash away easily. Water based lube can dry up in a minute and defeat its intended purpose -- to protect your skin.

The Asshole is not self-lubricating like the Mouthhole or Pussyhole.