ANAL TRAINING

[KeepSecret]

Soo i am a bottom tough didnt had a lot of sex before but i always wanted to start having an active sex life and i feel like if i dont start now i will never be. I tried to be top but the idea and experience didnt excite me too much and i always fantasy about bottoming.

Problem is i think i am too thight because even inserting a finger with lub is painfull and that distracts me a lot of everything else. How does people get two penis at the same time and enjoy it??? I tough of use some kind of toy to do a sort of training to lose my hole tough i am not sure for how long or is it good doing it everyday.

Please share your wisdom with me because in real life i am too shy to talk about this with anyone!!

 

[deleted15682271]

Buy a small Aneros toy, like a helix or mgr. Start really slow with a small toy, lots of lube and slowly work it in. Relax and it will go in easier. add in kegals once you get it in and are comfortable. Your ass will take it from there. You will get prostate stimulation as well.

 

[WilliamG]

Soo i am a bottom tough didnt had a lot of sex before but i always wanted to start having an active sex life and i feel like if i dont start now i will never be. I tried to be top but the idea and experience didnt excite me too much and i always fantasy about bottoming.

Problem is i think i am too thight because even inserting a finger with lub is painfull and that distracts me a lot of everything else. How does people get two penis at the same time and enjoy it??? I tough of use some kind of toy to do a sort of training to lose my hole tough i am not sure for how long or is it good doing it everyday.

Please share your wisdom with me because in real life i am too shy to talk about this with anyone!!

Look online for beginner dildos for anal. Some come in sets of small, med, and large.

The next issue is to be relaxed. Find a time when you are alone and in a chill mood. Make yourself a drink or a beer or two. Maybe watch a little porn to get in the mood. I've found being relaxed is the key to enjoying it. Then go slow.

As far as frequency, it's a bit like riding a bike: Once you've done it a few times you know what to expect and it gets a lot easier. I think a couple times a week would get you to the point of moving up in size to the point of a real cock's dimensions in no time. I can go weeks without using a toy now and still get my big one in after a little while of using a smaller one.

Have fun with it!

 

[5inchgirth]

I agree train yourself with a small dildo. I havd used an anal dildo also a carrott with a condom to insert into my ass. BTW i cum loads with it me so be aware

 

[halcyondays]

First thing to know is this: to open your butthole push like you're defecating. This relaxes the sphincter muscles around the anus which, thankfully, keeps it closed at all other times. What allows poop OUT allows fingers, enema, toys and/or cock IN.

Precaucion: please make sure you're empty before you start pushing!

I didn't start bottoming until I was 40. I had extra equipment I needed on hand for training guys to bottom: S/M/L butt plug set, lube injector, a liter of water-based lube and enema kits. I did to myself what I taught them:

I cleaned out with enema kit, injected lube and slowly inserted the Small butt plug. I only kept it in only as long as was comfortable--a short time at first. I left it in longer and longer each day. Didn't take long to adjust. One session a day.

When it was comfortable I lubed up and slowly inserted the Medium butt plug--again for a short time at first getting longer as each day passed.

When it was comfortable I lubed up and slowly inserted the Large butt plug. That was the biggest stretch for me. It was very uncomfortable at first. Took a week of daily insertion to get used to it. Like the S/M I left it in longer each time.

I also lubed and inserted an averaged sized rubber dildo (15 cm) to get used to deeper penetration.

Wash up the equipment with warm, soapy water when finished and air dry. Some toys are dishwasher safe.

Take your time. It's about feeling good and having fun.

Good luck!

 

[KeepSecret]

Buy a small Aneros toy, like a helix or mgr. Start really slow with a small toy, lots of lube and slowly work it in. Relax and it will go in easier. add in kegals once you get it in and are comfortable. Your ass will take it from there. You will get prostate stimulation as well.

I already took a look at those Aneros toys and looks pretty pro! Tough the addition of kegals is something i never considered before, thanks!

Look online for beginner dildos for anal. Some come in sets of small, med, and large.

The next issue is to be relaxed. Find a time when you are alone and in a chill mood. Make yourself a drink or a beer or two. Maybe watch a little porn to get in the mood. I've found being relaxed is the key to enjoying it. Then go slow.

As far as frequency, it's a bit like riding a bike: Once you've done it a few times you know what to expect and it gets a lot easier. I think a couple times a week would get you to the point of moving up in size to the point of a real cock's dimensions in no time. I can go weeks without using a toy now and still get my big one in after a little while of using a smaller one.

Have fun with it!

I actually buy a set of anal plugs and while the small ones felt nice, i got issues inserting the big one. The relaxation is the problem as well during sex tough since i am consious of everything, it seems i need to dedicate a few nights a week for it but living with anoying roomies make it difficult.

Mmmmm i feel better to read twice a week is enough and it got "memorie" as well tough ill be sure to keep using them between sex partners.

I agree train yourself with a small dildo. I havd used an anal dildo also a carrott with a condom to insert into my ass. BTW i cum loads with it me so be aware

Dosnt the pinty tip of the carrot hurt inside?? I dunno why i never trust vegetables for such a task.

First thing to know is this: to open your butthole push like you're defecating. This relaxes the sphincter muscles around the anus which, thankfully, keeps it closed at all other times. What allows poop OUT allows fingers, enema, toys and/or cock IN.

Precaucion: please make sure you're empty before you start pushing!

I didn't start bottoming until I was 40. I had extra equipment I needed on hand for training guys to bottom: S/M/L butt plug set, lube injector, a liter of water-based lube and enema kits. I did to myself what I taught them:

I cleaned out with enema kit, injected lube and slowly inserted the Small butt plug. I only kept it in only as long as was comfortable--a short time at first. I left it in longer and longer each day. Didn't take long to adjust. One session a day.

When it was comfortable I lubed up and slowly inserted the Medium butt plug--again for a short time at first getting longer as each day passed.

When it was comfortable I lubed up and slowly inserted the Large butt plug. That was the biggest stretch for me. It was very uncomfortable at first. Took a week of daily insertion to get used to it. Like the S/M I left it in longer each time.

I also lubed and inserted an averaged sized rubber dildo (15 cm) to get used to deeper penetration.

Wash up the equipment with warm, soapy water when finished and air dry. Some toys are dishwasher safe.

Take your time. It's about feeling good and having fun.

Good luck!

OK this is omportant: push out soo things got inside!! I been using anal plugs and sometimes i push out without thinking and it really hurts!!

I am 35 soo i am in time to start bottoming then, i sometimes tough it would be easyer if i started younger, but like i say i been using some anal plugs to do the job and i usually keep them inside me 20 minutes each night soo i am not sure if that speed up the proces or the damage since i still can take the bigger plug.

 

[WilliamG]

I already took a look at those Aneros toys and looks pretty pro! Tough the addition of kegals is something i never considered before, thanks!



I actually buy a set of anal plugs and while the small ones felt nice, i got issues inserting the big one. The relaxation is the problem as well during sex tough since i am consious of everything, it seems i need to dedicate a few nights a week for it but living with anoying roomies make it difficult.

Mmmmm i feel better to read twice a week is enough and it got "memorie" as well tough ill be sure to keep using them between sex partners.



Dosnt the pinty tip of the carrot hurt inside?? I dunno why i never trust vegetables for such a task.



OK this is omportant: push out soo things got inside!! I been using anal plugs and sometimes i push out without thinking and it really hurts!!

I am 35 soo i am in time to start bottoming then, i sometimes tough it would be easyer if i started younger, but like i say i been using some anal plugs to do the job and i usually keep them inside me 20 minutes each night soo i am not sure if that speed up the proces or the damage since i still can take the bigger plug.

Here's my take on "training". Your going to be getting fucked by a cock... Not a static plug. One of the tough things is for the top to stay hard waiting for you to be receptive. So to me (I'm no expert though), one should replicate the act. Find one made out of silicone as it is more representative of what's coming. Also, I find when you start sliding the dildo in and out, you start to relax a bit. I would suggest putting it on the edge of the bathtub or the corner of a table and sit down on it. And when you finally find your guy, have him lay down and you sit on him. That way YOU control insertion and motion. I do this with my wife using our strap on when starting off.

One thing I find REALLY puts me in the mood is a little cannabis (I know it's not fully legal there yet but...).

 

[halcyondays]

I would suggest putting it on the edge of the bathtub or the corner of a table and sit down on it. And when you finally find your guy, have him lay down and you sit on him. That way YOU control insertion and motion.

^This. Okay maybe not a tabletop, lol, but a chair or tub or floor using gravity assist to get on it. Put a towel down on bed or upholstery if doing it there. When I trained I sat on plugs and dildos.

Almost every time I top a guy I'm on my back and he's getting on so he controls how much of me he takes how fast--relaxing and taking more over time. It usually takes time. There's no hurry. I'm making sure he doesn't injure me by pushing down too hard too fast... bending my erection it ways it doesn't like.

 

[KeepSecret]

Ok booth of you, thanks. I was expecting to jump from a plug to a dildo to also train my insides to how it feel and i keep getting the idea to do it on the floor to make things easyer and safer. My only concern is getting carry away by my lust and buy a giant beastly dildo that dosnt enter into me (because i did it already once).

 

[WilliamG]

Ok booth of you, thanks. I was expecting to jump from a plug to a dildo to also train my insides to how it feel and i keep getting the idea to do it on the floor to make things easyer and safer. My only concern is getting carry away by my lust and buy a giant beastly dildo that dosnt enter into me (because i did it already once).

Rule of thumb: Look at your own dick. Then get one about the same size. Also, smooth silicone will feel the best. They cost a bit more but worth it. Check out Tantus for their "Silk" line of smooth finished silicone dildos.

 

[chrisrobin]

I agree train yourself with a small dildo. I havd used an anal dildo also a carrott with a condom to insert into my ass. BTW i cum loads with it me so be aware

Yep, you need to relax more and get used to the idea of the asshole being penetrated. When I began I used many items to pleasure my hole and get it ready for the big day and used a variety of items, including zucchini, cucumbers as well as carrots - bananas didn't quite work. The thing about these items being used is the ability to puck a size you think will be comfortable sliding inside you.
I fact in hot weather I love nothing better than to get a cucumber for the fridge, lube it up and slip it inside me and work with it till I enjoy a cock spurt of spunk.

 

[5inchgirth]

Yep, you need to relax more and get used to the idea of the asshole being penetrated. When I began I used many items to pleasure my hole and get it ready for the big day and used a variety of items, including zucchini, cucumbers as well as carrots - bananas didn't quite work. The thing about these items being used is the ability to puck a size you think will be comfortable sliding inside you.
I fact in hot weather I love nothing better than to get a cucumber for the fridge, lube it up and slip it inside me and work with it till I enjoy a cock spurt of spunk.

Hey thats great you can go at your own pace and really work the ass. I always cum loads when I fuck my ass.

 

[chrisrobin]

Hey thats great you can go at your own pace and really work the ass. I always cum loads when I fuck my ass.

I'd enjoy helping you, I could last as long as you wanted to get your cum loads

 

[5inchgirth]

I'd enjoy helping you, I could last as long as you wanted to get your cum loads

That would be awesome. Always good to have great guy working my cock

 

[chrisrobin]

That would be awesome. Always good to have great guy working my cock

Cucumber, courgette or my salami

 

[deleted17223131]

When I am in the mood to bottom, I just do breathing exercise and finger myself really.

 

[theplayerking]

Don’t neglect the psychological component of anal sex, which I would argue is more important than the physical. I recommend articulating what you want out loud while looking in a mirror. It sounds cheesy, but I find if I say, “I want a cock up my ass” out loud, it’s easier to take it.

 

[nhguy78]

I feel you about the distracted feeling. I forget that this is apparently supposed to be pleasurable but the process of inserting and relaxing kinda ruins the moment.

Here's a post i made somewhere else about it.https://www.lpsg.com/threads/does-anyone-identify-as-hsp.6364991/

 

[bravesoldier]

It takes a mountain of wanting to, to bottom. First, your anus has to be trained and that takes time. Get a toy and slowly break in your hole. Learn that being clean is one of the top priorities. When it hurts expect it and wait until you're ready to try again. Also, find a top that is not selfish and will shove it in you no matter how it feels for you. Realize your anal sphincter will stretch mightily and it will not hurt you. Men take fists in the ass and believe me your hole will stretch and train, it just takes time. Always lube yourself well internally and externally and get your top to grease his pole to a fair you well. The first time I tried I thought the guy was trying to rip me a new hole. Last night I took 6.5 inches of girth and couldn't get enough.

Patience is most important in training to be a bottom. Poppers does wonders too, it relaxes the sphincter muscle of your asshole.

 

[18wheeler]

Don’t neglect the psychological component of anal sex, which I would argue is more important than the physical. I recommend articulating what you want out loud while looking in a mirror. It sounds cheesy, but I find if I say, “I want a cock up my ass” out loud, it’s easier to take it.

THIS!!

Whike I’ve not been with a man, yet…. I personally think the entire atmosphere of the man behind me. Holding me. Pulling me. Talking to me. Feeling all of the parts touching would make it easier for me and make me relax more.