Any bisexuals who consider themselves "50/50"?

[bigboaster]

Any of you attracted about near equally to men/women? Or know someone who is?

The way people talk online sometimes, they make this sound like it's super common but in my own personal life this definitely isn't the case. Guys usually swing a bit more towards girls/guys at least a little bit right? Or only leaning romantically to one sex over the other? That would also describe me as well.

 

[deleted19462351]

I think for me it's complicated to truly put some percentage on it, cause I've definitely been in love/had crushes/had sex with both men and women in the past and while I do have my tastes theorically I could find anyone attractive. But also currently I don't like most people, yeah they are hot but whatever, so I'm usually just minding my own business. Also while I can do hook ups with guys (and I never enjoy them as much as I thought I would) I don't feel like doing that with girls, like I need time and a bond, but also I could see myself bonding with a guy and have sex after + cuddling, gaming, going out for dinner.
I usually prefer gay porn for a quick wank (the people involved at least cum) but I don't like most guys that much irl (straight porn unless amateur is really fucking bad) yet, I have been massively turned on but some specific men too and by women I had feelings for, so it's all over the place.

I'd say 60/40 - 40/60 moving between those and depends on the person.

 

[17398591]

Yes, depends on the situation & circumstances

 

[dickthrobbing]

Any of you attracted about near equally to men/women? Or know someone who is?

The way people talk online sometimes, they make this sound like it's super common but in my own personal life this definitely isn't the case. Guys usually swing a bit more towards girls/guys at least a little bit right? Or only leaning romantically to one sex over the other? That would also describe me as well.

I'm not emotionally attracted to men, for me its all about physical contact (BDSM) and or sex with men; I am very emotionally attracted to women

 

[markgaveda]

No

 

[bigboaster]

Yes, depends on the situation & circumstances

What circunstances?

 

[bigboaster]

I'm not emotionally attracted to men, for me its all about physical contact (BDSM) and or sex with men; I am very emotionally attracted to women

I'd say this is the common breakdown I see on LPSG by a large margin

 

[17398591]

What circunstances?

Whom I’m with, where we’re at, what happened before

 

[bigboaster]

Whom I’m with, where we’re at, what happened before

But does base attraction really change that fluidly, even under varying circumstances? Does being in a relationship with a guy/girl change how much you are attracted to either sex? or your location? That's moreso what I'm getting at. If you are 50/50 attracted then I think that's cool. I'm not sure it needs further explanation.

 

[deleted19462351]

I think he probably means familiarity and proximity, cause I assume it's easier to be into someone you already know.

 

[bigboaster]

I think he probably means familiarity and proximity, cause I assume it's easier to be into someone you already know.

I mean that's understandable but that just sounds like you're describing this

Which is fine. But this applies to gays and straights too. I don't think this should have any impact on your ratio of gender attraction? idk

 

[17398591]

But does base attraction really change that fluidly, even under varying circumstances? Does being in a relationship with a guy/girl change how much you are attracted to either sex? or your location? That's moreso what I'm getting at. If you are 50/50 attracted then I think that's cool. I'm not sure it needs further explanation.

Label me as you wish

 

[deleted19462351]

I mean that's understandable but that just sounds like you're describing this
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Which is fine. But this applies to gays and straights too. I don't think this should have any impact on your ratio of gender attraction? idk

I think it does for me at least, I don't know, honestly.

 

[deleted1371933]

I’m 50/50. However there are times I prefer one over the other.

 

[deleted19462351]

Though at times it can happen that I'm instantly attracted to someone, cause I might vibe with them fine.

 

[bigboaster]

I’m 50/50. However there are times I prefer one over the other.

Though at times it can happen that I'm instantly attracted to someone, cause I might vibe with them fine.

You're fine. sexuality is not often easily explained. Appreciate your perspective/contribution

 

[curtain_swoosh]

i dont find it super common at all and people who ask me either dont believe it or hate bisexuals haha.

 

[deleted19462351]

You're fine. sexuality is not often easily explained. Appreciate your perspective/contribution

Last guy I've been seeing, just gorgeous (Latino, has a telenovela lead type of face) and the attraction was instant, that usually doesn't happen to me with guys but now it did.

 

[Supersteel876]

Sexual attraction is 50/50 but romantically I lean way more towards men like 90/10 lol.