I have a very thick dick, and it took me a long time to realize that I was different. Particularly in locker room, once the guy sees how big you are, they spread rumors that you are gay or just jack off in the shower. I'm bigger than most guys hard, when I'm flaccid. So i never use an open shower stalls anymore and towel on and careful dressing. I got fired from a job because of my dick. So there is that! I wear baggy pants to hide my bulge. I have few female friends, none of them close to my age or younger. Some of them think I am happy to see them, and freak out.
I am happy with what I got, but I have to be mindful of having it, and be somewhat careful, like never date anyone you work with, and avoid women that I work with much as I can. However, I will talk to my female co-worker once I have gain their trust. I have dated women that I work with and after having sex, they would tell everyone about my dick size, then I had to deal with being grope, and coerce into having sex with the boss, and I got fired instead. I was very young and naive, and didn't know my rights. But afterward, i got grope like 5 times at a Halloween party and have no idea who did it. I had maybe 6 girls all groping me, and when I left to go home I found a dollar bill wrap around my dick. Top it off, my boss reprimanded me for allowing it to happen.
I been sexually assaulted many time from boss both female and male, to the point I went into therapy because I was afraid to look for work, always guarded to hide my package. My therapist help me so much. Help me put together a strategy to not let it happen again. I went into therapy to deal with my mom who was dying of cancer and taking care of her, but it did address everything else.
Bible belt Americans are very prude when it comes to sex and would harass people for having big breast and dicks. I don't think career wise having a big dick helps you get ahead, or even heads, too big to fit the mouth. I haven't even got to the physical difficulty of having a thick dick, yet. In hindsight, I should have got into doing porn for a living. I don't judge guys with a freak size dick doing porn, because the alternative isn't that great. I have to say I was so naive, I thought most of the guys doing porn had small dicks because they didn't want to scare off the men watching them. I think shorty max the only one bigger, but then I heard he pump them to make them bigger, and that he is really a 7.5 incher girth wise. But guys like him don't have a permanent GF, they fuck him for the experience, but too much pain for an everyday lifestyle. I have watch him struggle to get it in, and I find that olive oil is the best. Healthy for the her skin and keeps from drying out from the friction. But does nothing from her being sore for a couple of days.
