Are most straight men secretly (or openly) aroused by the sight of a huge penis or large ejaculation

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My fiancée is recovering from surgery and she asked me for some help masturbating. I told her to put on some porn that will get her as aroused as possible. I’ve known for some time that she enjoys squirting videos, but I realized that most of these only feature women and my fiancée is at least 90% straight and doesn’t even think of those videos as lesbian.

In that past I’ve definitely admired solo big cock images and enjoyed watching a guy blow an impressive load. Now I prefer if there’s a lady there with the guy. A popular straight porn category is handjob, I propose that the arousal for this category comes from watching the cock and cumshot and only a little from that fact that there’s a woman touching him.

So I decided to put it to the test, I came on here and reddit’s /r/massivecock and /r/grower and got started downloading solo content that I found arousing. I say download because a lot of the sites and even this forum has a lot stuff I’m really not into at all so I waded through it all and downloaded what I liked. This meant mostly closeups of huge cocks growing or cumming. Self sucking was a turn off but interesting.

I was able to successfully masturbate with just that content, it was fairly easy. I think I was able to be aroused and cum for the same reasons my fiancée was: empathy and fantasy. I fantasize that I have the giant cock and imagine how good it feels, in fact sometimes I let myself fully fall into the fantasy and somehow my mind tricks itself into my own cock feeling thicker and longer. And when watching cumshots it’s the same thing, I put myself in that role and feel what they must be feeling. I honestly think that most straight men probably feel the same but either won’t say so publicly or more likely are trapped in their own mind and have convinced themselves that there’s no way they could possibly like it because they are definitely not gay and only gay men like to look at cocks. In reality they love to look at cocks, every titfuck, blowjob or handjob is all about looking at what’s being done to the cock.

Thoughts on this?
 

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Every man has some attraction to the ideal penis. That's why porn is full of big dick, right? It's not for the women. Porn is made for men by men. By the way, It's not hard to understand why they like to see big cocks: all men have one themselves between their legs.

I think your experience is just normal and commonplace. You're being honest. But many straight males in this country lie to themselves because the taboo of male homosexuality is still too great in our society. Admitting anything possibly perceived as gay is still not acceptable in mainstream society for males. Just the way it is. Why admit gay fantasies/big cock attraction when you are only romantically attracted to women? A man would have nothing to gain but everything to lose.

There are, however, some men here and there who don't like to see peni in porn, with little attraction to the penis. But many of them have extreme lesbian sex fetishes, or are transsexual lesbians themselves.


I think some men who identify as straight on LPSG see attraction to cock as wanting to interact with one. No, my friends. Just liking to see a big penis in porn is a form of attraction. Period.

Most men (not all) get very aroused by just looking at big, realistic-looking dildos. They get hard as a rock. But, no, they have no big dick attraction. Yeah, tell it to the next person. Besides, it doesn't make you gay or bi anyways. If you really want to suck one, well...you have a little gay in you. If you want a boyfriend/husband, you're at least very strongly bisexual (unless you're sexuality changes over time).
 

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As a mostly straight 90% and married man, I still like the sight of a big cock and being stroked is also a turnon to me. I have stroked and sucked cock in the past and enjoyed it. I'm married, love my wife and want to keep her. But to watch a guy stroke his cock with a big cum shot is hot!
 

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- You were not asking questions. You basically told me I'm attracted to dicks that look like mine.

- I show off my pics here because I want to. Get over it. It's because of at least some sort of exhibitionist side of me. That's got nothing to do with how my dick makes me feel or what this thread is even about. Plus no matter which site I join there will always be more men than women. Always.

- I have an amazingly beautiful woman at home. The only woman I want and the only woman I show off to irl.

- I get more than enough attention from the ladies on here. If I didn't I wouldn't be here.

- a lot of women don't care about dick size and neither do I. I'm not here because of my size or to get attention from size queens.

- I don't enjoy comments from other guys, but I appreciate them. There's a difference.

- women absolutely compliment me on my pics.

- are you kidding me???? I don't give a flying fuck what other straight guys do or not. I'm not them. I thank people for their compliments and if you have a problem with that then kindly piss off.

- something about homophobia... no idea what you're on about.

- you are basically implying that straight men have no business being here. This is not a gay/bi site.

- only part I 100% agree with in your post is that your comments/questions about straight guys are fucking annoying.

- again, you try to speak for me (and for straight guys in general), trying to tell me what I should or shouldn't do.

- this is ask a straight guy and as far as I remember you're not straight, so stop coming in here arguing with straight guys and our thoughts and opinions and questioning our sexuality and reasons for being here
 

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I have no idea what most men think. As for me, no, it's not really a thing for me.

I propose that the arousal for this category comes from watching the cock and cumshot and only a little from that fact that there’s a woman touching him.

I have watched (or at least attempted to watch) gay porn and it wasn't a turn on. Having a woman involved is everything to me.
 

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Hi again!

Yes, straight dudes are very annoying in their generalizations, and in and their shallow understanding of male sexuality egged along by our homophobic cultures.

You keep going on and on about homophobia but I have no clue why or what this has to do with me. You've probably mentioned homophobia more than anyone else on this site. I have absolutely nothing against gay or bi people. Only one generalizing or being disrespectful here is you with your obvious heterophobic views.

I was playing "typical straight dude" in my last post to see how you'd react.

In other words trolling

I admit that I do have attraction to ideal-looking peni. However, I do not have desire to interact with another man's penis.So, I'm more like a straight man, right?
No!! Being straight means you're ONLY attracted to women. No ifs or buts about it. No attraction to men and no attraction to penis. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being bi, just sayin. You might not like labels but they're there for a reason and they have specific meanings. I've seen some of your posts where you say some men are sexy and they or their dicks turn you on, but sorry that's just not what it means to be straight.

If you see yourself as straight tho then cool, so be it.

Definitions of what straight is is debatable.

Not really. Imo

So I can post on this thread.

Again if you see yourself as straight then sure go for it. But then you also post in ask a gay dude on occasion. Can't be both because then you're bi which would then restrict you to only post in ask a bi. Best to pick and choose one of the 3 and then stick with it and stay out of the other two forums.
I am not defining you, by the way - just trying to understand you. I was never calling your sexuality into question.

That's def not what I got from reading your posts. So you basically disagreeing with me when I say I'm not attracted to dicks at all isn't trying to define me? It's as if you think there's no such thing as a real straight man or a man who's not attracted to other men or their dicks (or dildos lmao).
 

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the idea that all men get excited and "chub" up at the sight of a reaslistic big dildo is redicilas.....and the "all" men.....and the "the perfectly natural" stuff.....could it be possible your projecting?????

also i have never been aroused at sight of dildo....and it's not cause I'm straight....i don't get aroused at sight of a plastic pussy.....or a blow up doll ....or a mannequin......real people for me ...thanks

Not "all" men. The sight of one's one penis is enough for most young men to get aroused. That's common sense. Any sexual reminder - dick, pussy, tits, lingerie, etc. Any sexual reminder is plenty enough for the average young male to chub up. There are always exceptions to generalities.


People on this forum are confusing attraction to penis in the sense of a hidden desire to "physically interact" with another cock that is considered ideal. That has never been the discussion.

Circle jerks don't make a man gay, or bi, necessarily (reasoning for doing so varies according to age, jealously attractions, etc). But it is a gay activity in our culture (not all).

I find it interesting how men will go to the greatest lengths to affirm their heterosexuality. But women rarely ever do so. This is very culturally-driven.

The majority of men, no matter their sexual orientation, have attraction to the penis. It's common sense. Porn features large cocks for a reason. The vicarious nature of it proves the attraction.

Do men grow muscles to not have attraction to them and feel sexy? What is feeling sexy as a man? Do men not have attraction to their own genitals, unless they have some self-esteem issue?

It's funny how folks on here just put everyone in gay, straight or bi categories without seeing the nuances of human sexuality and cultural mores at work. Geesh - taboos are so strong, even on a porn site devoted to big dick. I'm showing my big dick off on a big dick site, but I have zero attraction to big dick.

Men search for views of large penises like no tomorrow. And there is a reason for that. That's why porn is full of penis. If men had no attraction to the penis, porn would be all solo wome and lesbian.

Evolutionary scientists wouldn't agree with the premise that straight men have no attraction to the penis in a very general sense. They understand that the taboo of male homosexuality plays a major role in man's reaction to the question being asked. They look beyond culture, thank god.

Men are attracted to large penises for evolutionary reasons. It's rooted in competition.


Note: the video is not about all straight men are secretly attracted to transsexuals. What that they have to say is compelling and based on research. Something we're not seeing on here.
 

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Are most straight men secretly (or openly) aroused by the sight of a huge penis or large ejaculation


There's nothing secret about it really.

I enjoy porn scenes featuring very large cocks.

I really enjoy porn scenes featuring huge cumshots (including the fake massive cumshot scenes).

As a straight man though, when I watch those scenes, I'm imagining being that guy (or a guy with similar attributes), I don't imagine myself as the woman on the receiving end of all that cum, nor do I enjoy male solo vids. In fact, I don't even care for it when the guy is jacking himself off onto a woman (I was just complaining about that here). Those kinds of scenes don't arouse me at all (even if a particularly hung guy or heavy cummer is featured)
 

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I really hope you're not trying to speak for me because that would be really fucking annoying. The one and only dick on this planet that does anything for me is my own. Simple as that. And it's more to do about how my dick makes me feel than anything else.

Not attracted to men and def not attracted to other dicks. Doesn't matter if there are similar dicks to mine.

most all men are attracted to their conception of an "ideal" cock. Men love looking at big, realistic-looking dildos. They bone up over the mere sight of them. It's proven.
What a load of bullshit
 

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Well I am straight and I saw a couple of gay guys walking along at the nudist beach I was at with my gf, one of them had a semi and the other was fully hard just walking past people not caring, it actually turned me on. Obvs nothing to do with the 200 vaginas and 400 boobs I'd been perving on for the previous couple of hours to get me in the mood! I think it just sexualised the whole thig a bit more
 

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All I'll say is that I've just never heard of straight guys getting aroused by the sight of another man or what he's packin before I joined this place.
Not to mention ""straight"" guys who choose to have any sort of sex with other men or guys who go out for the sole purpose of circle jerking etc when there are so many beautiful, lonely or horny women out there to choose from
 

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Simply put, most men (I can’t say all) respond to a big cock or an erect cock as a symbol of male sexuality and vitality. The response is not an indicator of the hetero or homosexual orientation of the respondent. It’s a totem for most males and elicits a powerful subconscious reponse.
There’s no porn market for the flaccid micro- or picopenis...

Likewise with ejaculation. It’s the biosexual purpose of an erect cock.

That’s one of the reasons why the ‘money shot’ is featured in porn—it’s the psychobiotrigger for the viewer to ejaculate,, since most men masturbate to climax watching porn. A man identifies sexually with male sexual function and triggers to it.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, there will be those who take issue with this explanation, but that doesn’t invalidate it.
Big cocks and male ejaculation are mythic and totemic: the reaction to them happens at a far deeper level in males more than most other responses to the stimuli of the ordinary psychological world.
 

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the idea that all men get excited and "chub" up at the sight of a reaslistic big dildo is redicilas.....and the "all" men.....and the "the perfectly natural" stuff.....could it be possible your projecting?????

also i have never been aroused at sight of dildo....and it's not cause I'm straight....i don't get aroused at sight of a plastic pussy.....or a blow up doll ....or a mannequin......real people for me ...thanks
 

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I think from watching porn over the years I got to like the sight of a nice big dick and spurting cumshots. Most of the videos I do watch have a guy/s with a nice cock in them. Have never sucked or touched another mans cock but I’d be tempted by the right one even though I have no attraction to guys at all. It’s strange to think I’d be repulsed kissing a guy I’d maybe suck his dick if I liked the look of it :laughing:
 

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Well,

Till today i thought i was kind a wierd straight guy as to online porn viewing, but i made some research on the web and forums and....

In fact, i consider myself straight, but when a i see a good shaped healthy cock it turns me on by thinking how such a nice one would please a woman. I don't think of sucking it or having it bareback and don't feel atracted with guy's body.
When i watch porn, i really don't focus on the fact of the woman beeing or not atractive, i focus on the guy's stamina fucking her and turns me the thought of how much pleasure he is giving her with his powerfull cock. I'm specially turned on by scenes where is an healthy upward cock in action.
I'm sorry, but i'm not that alfa male that only looks to the woman's tits and pussy. Of course i also look, but i pay particularly attention on how she is teased for the guy.

However, i can't tell my wife what turns me on if we see some porn together... guess she wouldn't understand and think i'm gay or something... she very conservative about sex.

Should i feel not a 100% straight guy, by the fact of appreciating the guy's performance on the porn scenes?
Anyone in same situation?

(sorry some mistakes on my writing)
 

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It's all subjective isn't it? I'd probably put that at 20 or 30%. I put down 10% because of the subject of this post as well as my huge fetish for futanari, especially the really ridiculously endowed ones such as those featured here: reddit.com/r/hugefutanari

I'm also not squeamish around my own cum, I've never intentionally ingested it, but I'll go down on my fiancee after giving her a creampie without thinking twice. I also have zero problems kissing her after a blowjob (just as she has no problem kissing me after going down on her).

I think the gayest thing I would do is briefly touch another man's cock, provided it was truly massive, mainly out of curiosity for how it huge it would feel in my hand compared to my own. I'm not sure if sexuality can change over time, I'd honestly have no problem being bisexual, but that just isn't how I feel. The only cock I'd ever suck would be my own (if I were big enough or flexible enough to do so), or my fiancee's if her clit magically grew into a cock making her a true futanari, but I have no desire to be penetrated by her, and only find transexual women attractive when solo or with a female partner.

Some may disagree but I think that puts me at about 10%, perhaps only 1% or even 0% since I don't really find myself sexually attracted to men at all.

This is an interesting subject as some men like myself get turned on by a big hard cock but otherwise aren’t attracted to men. Once a guy, I met at a nude beach, wanted me to be the top. I stopped not even half way into it as I didn’t like it (sticking my cock in a guys ass that is) and wouldn’t do it again. I’ve stroked and sucked cock and liked it but that was a long time ago and being married won’t be doing that again. I also have no desire to ever kiss a man. Since I like videos like the one above I would edge with someone on Skype but I don’t go further than that. So that is my 10%. Maybe it should be 20-30% I don’t know.