Asking a straight guy to suck his dick

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It's not what i think, babe, it's the way it is, i know tons of hetero males, and there all about the same damn thing, getting 2 bitches to go at it, or should i say have a "bi" experiance, cause to you "men" Oh it's so normal, and natural, but immoral for 2 men to have a "bi" experiance..

Your post earlier and this one both suggest that you feel all heterosexual men are like this. So I'll ask you again: is that really what you think?
 

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I don't recall suggesting that they did. So in your opinion then when someone who is totally responsible for being intoxicated is propositioned for sex by someone they are all of a sudden no longer responsible and therefore are being taken advantage of? Or are they responsible for being taken advantage of too? If so how are they being taken advantage of?

In any case you neatly avoided the rather clear distinction between someone being mildly intoxicated and still able to give informed consent to sex and someone being too intoxicated to be able to give informed consent. The distinction is pretty important. In the first case no one could possible be being taken advantage of in the second they most certainly could.

The original concept was to hope someone might be willing to have sex, simply because they are drunk. I assume that means they would normally not do such a thing, and would probably regret it when sober. It makes sense that we are talking about inability to give informed consent.

I would say they are being taken advantage of because the person who offers them sex, knows they would normally say no if they weren't drunk. I would also say they are responsible for getting drunk enough to be taken advantage of in the first place.

Once you have had a man suck your dick, news flash, you're not fucking straight!

Your words boo boo... :)

Oh, okay. So there is only straight and gay then? If you are not one, then you are the other? Thanks for clearing that up.
 

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The original concept was to hope someone might be willing to have sex, simply because they are drunk. I assume that means they would normally not do such a thing, and would probably regret it when sober. It makes sense that we are talking about inability to give informed consent.

I would say they are being taken advantage of because the person who offers them sex, knows they would normally say no if they weren't drunk. I would also say they are responsible for getting drunk enough to be taken advantage of in the first place.


Mild intoxication, which is to say a state in which informed consent is still possible, causes disinhibition, meaning that as you put it people do things they might not normally do. Just as you point out, people intentionally and with full responsibility drink to this point of intoxication because it disinhibits them, it allows them to feel euphoric and able to let loose and have fun.

Now if a person in this state is propositioned for sex and they able to consent to it, what exactly is wrong with the proposition? What people will or will not regret at a later point in time isn't really relevant. Certainly not to the person propositioning the drunk person anyway.

If I go out, get drunk enough to feel less constrained by social norms or cultural pressures which then allows me to consent to have sex with another consenting adult (whatever the nature of the sex) what earth is is wrong with that? I mean I chose to get that drunk, I chose to accept the consequences of the disinhibition it will cause and any of the subsequent acts and activities which my lack of inhibition will likely cause me to get involved in. No?

Whether I regret any of this in the morning isn't really a factor in judging the relative morality of the person who may have propositioned me for sex while I was inebriated and still able to consent to sex. That's my deal not theirs.
 

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It's not what i think, babe, it's the way it is, i know tons of hetero males, and there all about the same damn thing, getting 2 bitches to go at it, or should i say have a "bi" experiance, cause to you "men" Oh it's so normal, and natural, but immoral for 2 men to have a "bi" experiance..



*applause*
 

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Asking a straight guy to suck his dick...

Anything wrong with that??

What do you think he'd say?? What If he's in a relationship with a gf??


ASK AND YE SHALL RECEIVE...


If you are man enough to ask a straight man for a blowjob, you are definately man enough to ask if he has a relationship with a woman.







 

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I can't believe I'm answering this question.

Once you have had a man suck your dick, news flash, you're not fucking straight!

That's retarded!

Reasons why a straight guy would let a man give him head:

1. Sex addiction. Sex addicts often have sex with people they are not particularly attracted to, regardless of what their preferred gender is.

2. Money. Again, sex workers often have sex with people they are not attracted to. Attraction is not the point.

3. Vanity. Very attractive people who often get by on their looks may manipulate other people to get what they want. It makes them feel powerful.

4. Circumstance. Most prison rape involves straight men raping other straight men.

5. Curiosity. Not exactly the same thing as being gay, or even bi. There are plenty of gays who've had straight sex, and plenty of straights who've had gay sex. Some of them liked it. Many of them hated it, and it confirmed their identity. Either way it does not change your identity.

If a straight by gets head from a guy, and in his heart, knows that he's still straight, why should that offend you or effect you in any way? Does that in any way make you less straight?

You seem to imply that being gay is somehow contageous, and that you must take precautions not to catch it. Chill out.
 
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It doesn't offend me or affect me in any way. But I don't think it's fair for a man to call himself straight if he has oral sex with men.

Whether I regret any of this in the morning isn't really a factor in judging the relative morality of the person who may have propositioned me for sex while I was inebriated and still able to consent to sex. That's my deal not theirs.

I think it is wrong for someone to make a goal to have sex with a drunk person, knowing that they wouldn't normally get away with it when the person is sober. We don't have to agree on this.
 

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i've kinda done it before.. to a friend.. a guy i really admired.. he was in a relationship with a woman.. i always joked around with it though i never made my sexuality something to feel shameful about nor did i push his buttons to where he reached his limits.. i used to joke about it and made it all very light and flirty because truth is, i never thought he'd say yes.. it was all in good fun and then we became friends, kinda chatted from time to time a little more often.. i think it was because of us at least having an unspoken bond and an understanding of what the deal was.. eventually i met his girlfriend, i introduced myself, she was a beautiful girl and just the same, said bye and never made a big deal out of it.. they broke up later and i offered my friendship and honestly, i did have intentions of going in for the kill though he had the wrong idea because he thought that i wanted him to give ME a blowjob and he refused.. it was no biggie, it kinda hurt me though because to me, it wasn't perverted at all what i was trying to do it was just me trying to show my respect or admiration for him... i found him to be a man.. unlike other guys who would just hold up crosses at the sight of another naked man.. i dunno, it was a matter of respect as far as i was concerned.. i wanted to get him off, i wanted to make him feel good.. never went through.. i developed feelings for him later so i stopped talking to him because i never wanted to cross the line and last i heard, he's been jokingly playing the role of gay and his relationship broke up for good.. i haven't returned or offered to be his friend or anything else anymore.. i like to think that perhaps even if just for a second, i helped him understand that there is a different kind of bond that can exist between a man and another man that differs from the bond of man and a woman or a man with family or friends.
 
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That's retarded!

Reasons why a straight guy would let a man give him head:

1. Sex addiction. Sex addicts often have sex with people they are not particularly attracted to, regardless of what their preferred gender is.

2. Money. Again, sex workers often have sex with people they are not attracted to. Attraction is not the point.

3. Vanity. Very attractive people who often get by on their looks may manipulate other people to get what they want. It makes them feel powerful.

4. Circumstance. Most prison rape involves straight men raping other straight men.

5. Curiosity. Not exactly the same thing as being gay, or even bi. There are plenty of gays who've had straight sex, and plenty of straights who've had gay sex. Some of them liked it. Many of them hated it, and it confirmed their identity. Either way it does not change your identity.

If a straight by gets head from a guy, and in his heart, knows that he's still straight, why should that offend you or effect you in any way? Does that in any way make you less straight?

You seem to imply that being gay is somehow contageous, and that you must take precautions not to catch it. Chill out.


I have to agree with this statement...but when a guy repeatedly does it and uses money or other situations as an excuse i think he is more than curious and not owning up to his true feelings...I also think it is wrong to take advantage of a very drunk person, who is passed out etc....but i dont think its bad if the guy is buzzn (not2 the point of knockingoutslammeddrunk) and you may or may not be too and bring it up...we all know drinking makes anyone more relaxed and do things they usually dont, and if they dont want to do it, they will DEF tell u
 

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I can't believe I'm answering this question.

Once you have had a man suck your dick, news flash, you're not fucking straight!


ROFL - for a second there I thought you were gone say, "Once you have a man suck your dick, you will never want him to stop" or somthing like that.

Serious now:
A straight friend had his cock sucked by a guy before. He hated it. He is staright, that bj did not make him gay. He is however open minded about everything.
Next case - I think it depends on the nationality. I would not sugest you ask a straight South African guy if you can blow him. 99% of the time, it will not end well. Some people are just not very open to other things and will take offence from it.

In a perfect world, I would say yes, you can ask, but if he says no, it is no. perhaps "you" are just not his type. :)
 

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The one thing that I ABSOLUTLY, DESPISE, about you damn hetero males, and your polluted way of thinking, is that it's perfectly "normal" in your pea of a brain, for you to convince a female to have sexual realtions with another female aka, your bitches, and to you it's natural, on the other hand it's so wrong for two guys to have sex, bit of Hypocrisy there don't ya think?


I have to say as a 100% gay man who is 100% out I think this post is 100% BS! I live in a small town and almost all of my friends are straight. While the guys may find girl on girl porn arousing they would never expect their wives or girlfriends to participate in that kind of thing.

These kind of remarks always seem to come from arrogant, bitchy queens who will take any chance they can to belittle a straight men.

Also on the rest of this topic I must say I can see where the original person who started this thread is coming from. He seems to just be looking for advise on that particular situation and never said he was going to push himself on the straight guy.

Like I said I live in a small town and most of my friends are straight. I would personally not go after anyone in a relationship. However, some straight guys do send out some very mixed signals. I have had some of them really confuse me with their actions and words. I have had sex with of couple of these "Straight Guys." One I do think is Straight and the other I think just hasn't come to terms with his own sexuality. In both instances they initiated the sex and I was not in any way expecting it to happen.

Now there is another guy that has been flirting with me and we have made out. I think he is also struggling with his orientation. He's young and cute and I don't really know him that well. The other two however I consider friends. Well we were friends. The one that is struggling with his sexuality doesn't talk to me much anymore, even though he came on to me. Funnily enough the straight guy and I are still great friends and it happened a couple times. He has a girlfriend now so it's off limits now. But at least we are still friends.
 

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A completely straight guy would either walk away from that situation and have nothing else to do with the guy, or would kick his ass for asking something that is so personal. You can't get any more personal than putting a guys dick in your mouth.
 

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A completely straight guy would either walk away from that situation and have nothing else to do with the guy, or would kick his ass for asking something that is so personal. You can't get any more personal than putting a guys dick in your mouth.

I'm sorry, but that's simply not true. There are any number of situations under which a 100 percent straight guy night have gay sex...and still be totally straight. These things happen, trust me.
 

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i have never asked a str8 guy to blow him. i can't imagine wanting to have sex with someone who isn't willing to reciprocate at least to some extent.

now, having said that, i have had sex with some guys who also had sex with women, but they were nice enough to show some interest in me, and that made it all worthwhile...

"str8" guys who are uptight about gay guys are just so boring... i can't be bothered with dudes who are afraid of another man...