Hey Ladies
The last time I posted a question here, it was back in 2018.....man how time flies!
My wife and I have been married now for over 15 years. I'd like to spice up the sex life a bit and think maybe we should some sex toys whether rose, vibrator, dildo, etc. I'm not bored with our sex life, I just want to experiment to see if we'd love it. We both started out being really conservative, so sex toys was never a thought in the beginning. As the years went on, we both would mention it hear and there, but with no commitment to actually buying them. She's not into porn at all. Here and there for me, but it's not a mainstay in my life. That being said....
My wife is extremely self-conscious, so I don't want to trigger any negative feelings. Feelings like I'm not satisfied, I'm bored with her, etc. I'd even want to avoid her saying that I must've seen something somewhere. Porn and anything close (including this site lol) is not allowed, but that's a story for another day lol.
1. What's some ways I could bring this topic back up?
2. If she's down with it (I don't see her saying no), how should we go about making our first purchase?
3. Would you say one type is better suited to be the 1st (dildo vs vibrator or realistic dildo vs non realistic etc.) ?
4. Shoot, what about sizes? How do we decide on that?
Most likely, she'll leave more of the choice up to me. It's her body, but that's just how she is lol.
The last time I posted a question here, it was back in 2018.....man how time flies!
My wife and I have been married now for over 15 years. I'd like to spice up the sex life a bit and think maybe we should some sex toys whether rose, vibrator, dildo, etc. I'm not bored with our sex life, I just want to experiment to see if we'd love it. We both started out being really conservative, so sex toys was never a thought in the beginning. As the years went on, we both would mention it hear and there, but with no commitment to actually buying them. She's not into porn at all. Here and there for me, but it's not a mainstay in my life. That being said....
My wife is extremely self-conscious, so I don't want to trigger any negative feelings. Feelings like I'm not satisfied, I'm bored with her, etc. I'd even want to avoid her saying that I must've seen something somewhere. Porn and anything close (including this site lol) is not allowed, but that's a story for another day lol.
1. What's some ways I could bring this topic back up?
2. If she's down with it (I don't see her saying no), how should we go about making our first purchase?
3. Would you say one type is better suited to be the 1st (dildo vs vibrator or realistic dildo vs non realistic etc.) ?
4. Shoot, what about sizes? How do we decide on that?
Most likely, she'll leave more of the choice up to me. It's her body, but that's just how she is lol.
