Attitude towards your asshole?

[beltboy]

Straight dudes:

How do you feel about ass play in sex with your woman, or during masturbation?

I have a theory that younger guys 19-30 are comfortable with anal eroticism, and include it in sex play and self play.

Guys 30 - 45 are fifty fifty on it...having come of age pre-internet info overload era. I fall into this category, and my friends are sort of split. I remember at about age 20 a friend telling me his gf fingered him during sex...it was the first I heard of it. I only started playing with my ass in my 30s, so late starter.

Guys over 45 - no idea. Honestly some of these guys lived through the 70s when people were experimenting wildly, so not sure how they feel about it.

 

[kenny233]

I never really do it myself, but I enjoy it when my girlfriend plays with it during sex or blowjobs.

 

[NOBBY_UK]

55 Here
Anal (Giving or Taking) = No Thank You

 

[grumpyguy]

I have no interest in anal play. I'm very self-conscious about that part of my body. So, no, rather just leave it alone.

 

[Gecko4lif]

Only things touching my asshole is toilet paper and wash rags. Period.

 

[jupiter19]

Experimented with it in my early 20's. Girlfriends have fingered me, put dildos in me etc. I have to confess it really does nothing for me. I don't find my asshole an erotic part of my body.

 

[554279]

55 Here
Anal (Giving or Taking) = No Thank You

50 here, great minds think alike.

I have had a few women's asshole and I prefer the vagina.

Mine is off limits to all.

 

[meat_popsicle]

Good question.

The anus was strictly exit-only for me for most of my life. Found the idea of anal sex about as filthy and dirty as I thought homosexuality was at the time I first learned about it. I would backflip on this latter opinion later in life once I realised 2 of my closest friends were gay. Said friends would frequently joke with me that I was missing out by not experiencing anal intercourse. All good and well, but the thought of fucking or being fucked by guy is zero-arousing to me - I'm strictly a 'vagina, breasts and soft feminine curvy bits' kinda guy.

Fast forward a few years and I meet the wickedest young woman I've ever encountered. Worships cock, likes them big (win), loves role-playing, was first to suggest inviting another woman to our bed, loves watching me fuck other women, and after several months suggests I try fucking her in the arse.

On one condition. She gets to fuck me in the arse with a decent sized (but comparably small) strap-on. To sweeten the deal, we do this during a threesome with one of her hottest young friends who I was dead-keen on fucking.

To cut a long story short, it turns out I have an extremely sensitive anus/g-spot, and being fucked by my now long-time girlfriend makes me cum harder than I can possibly do so without something in my anus. We're talking projectile rope-throwing. I still enjoy it without, and do so 80% of the time we fuck. But trust me when I say that having a beautiful woman suck your cock, while an equally beautiful woman fucks your arse, is pretty fucken amazing.

The funniest part is how most straight guys who've found this out immediately leap to one conclusion - YOUR GAY BRO!!!

Pfft ... puh-lease. The way I look at it, I'm getting the most out of what I'm capable of doing/feeling. And I'm doing it with a woman I trust, and who loves doing it to me nearly as much as I love doing it to her.

 

[Remington]

I'm in my mid 20's and not into anal.

 

[citr]

I'm 24 and I don't find the asshole erotic. Neither mine or my wife's. I would probably try anal sex if she really really wanted it, but it'd be weird.

 

[permit1971]

I'm 41 and love anal play. My wife loves to peg me and loves to lIck my ass. (She is 23) I am straighter than an arrow. I keep very clean, and shave my ass everyday.

 

[RideRocket]

Not a big fan of ass play on my end. It does feel nice during a blowjob, but that's about it. Tried some penetration with a prostrate massager and it really didnt do anything for me. My ex liked anal, but she had a hard time taking me there due to my size so we rarely did it.

 

[beltboy]

Truly interesting responses so far guys. Remember to state your age, as we are trying to see if age and attitude correlate. So far its seems NOT.

 

[AnonForever]

I'm 18 and have absolutely no desire for this.

 

[bizzBoy]

I LOVE anal play! It's a major turn-on for me!

I don't like penetration, though. I've had two or three prostate orgasms in my life but otherwise I generally don't like inserting.

I love just massaging the anus and between the cheeks, especially after I've shaved there.

 

[MrHangman]

I have no interest in women playing with my butt hole, or in playing with theirs (unless she really wanted me to and I really wanted to fulfill her desires). In fact, I get really annoyed when in porn they go to anal. I just don't get off on that.

 

[bicusdicus]

I'm in my 30's and I dig anal play. My old lady like to rim me and finger my ass while she sucks or fucks me. We had a few sessions that were so intense, that it made me want it. So I have fingered my ass in the shower while stroking, but a helping hand is always perferred

 

[YoudNeverSuspect]

I don't really 'maintain' back there, with shaving and the like.. so.. It's not my most confident of areas.. but(t) I am completely open to rubbing and the like, even a finger if she's into it.. but I'm not going to ask.

If a girl maintains back there, I will do most anything she wants.. I love all parts of a healthy woman's body.

It's beautiful back there.

I'm in my early 30's.

 

[deleted365297]

i >know< that you can get a lot out of anal stimulation and want to have said awesome experience...but i find experimentation too messy or not pleasurable enough to continue trying. every once in a while i'll feel like i should try more, but never seems to end up particularly awesome

 

[185248]

They did have porn shops back then, all those years ago. Living in Queensland in the seventies, I use to have to travel south of the border to buy porn. Arse play might not have been mainstream, but my thinking is anyone who has enjoyed perving at porn, has experimented with their arsehole. If they have not, then they have not watched a lot of porn then, have they.