Aussies - Are Melbourne guys the same as other states?

[Aussie Melbourne Guy]

I've noticed more so on apps.like Sniffies and from cruising that Melbourne guys are more into :

- Glory holes (beats or club x / saunas)
- understall
- wanting to be degraded
- anonymous pump and dump (no face, no talk)

None of the above interest me sexually but seems it's the majority.

Are guys in other states the same or more open? Country different?

I prefer one on one, play at urinals or group fun at beats and saunas (involved or watching)

 

[marcozmitch]

I've noticed more so on apps.like Sniffies and from cruising that Melbourne guys are more into :

- Glory holes (beats or club x / saunas)
- understall
- wanting to be degraded
- anonymous pump and dump (no face, no talk)

None of the above interest me sexually but seems it's the majority.

Are guys in other states the same or more open? Country different?

I prefer one on one, play at urinals or group fun at beats and saunas (involved or watching)

It is hard for me to give accurate information of a more recent nature, but I do think times have changed, but not necessarily for the better.
IRL is always best.
But chat-rooms on Facebook or other more socially orientated chat-links, may reward you. Age may be a factor. Young guys are pretty cluey these days, & really with out the social links it could be quite an ocean. Chat names in FB "messenger" may be along the lines of Gay Melbourne Social Chat /LGBTIQ Melbourne Vic/ Lost Gay Melbourne / Melbourne's Gay Men's Meetup Group/ Hot Gay Melbourne Chat as examples (I don't know if they are real, but pan around and see what there is). Put some feelers out there, but avoid explicit discussions to keep FB happy. Volunteering at community groups can be helpful if you have the desire or time.