Average size?

The generally accepted averages based on scientific studies are:
  • The average flaccid length is about 9.16 cm (3.61 inches).
  • The average erect length is about 13.12 cm (5.16 inches).
  • The average flaccid girth is about 9.31 cm (3.66 inches).
  • The average erect girth is about 11.66 cm (4.59 inches).
I don’t think there has been a comprehensive survey to determine the average size of users here on LPSG.
 
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The generally accepted averages based on scientific studies are:
  • The average flaccid length is about 9.16 cm (3.61 inches).
  • The average erect length is about 13.12 cm (5.16 inches).
  • The average flaccid girth is about 9.31 cm (3.66 inches).
  • The average erect girth is about 11.66 cm (4.59 inches).
I don’t think there has been a comprehensive survey to determine the average size of users here on LPSG.
those of us who below these numbers, are we below average or small? Not sure which term is worse but below avg includes around 50% of men.
 
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those of us who below these numbers, are we below average or small? Not sure which term is worse but below avg includes around 50% of men.
I think those labels are all a matter of perspective. Trying to find contentment in what you have can be a difficult process - regardless of what the ruler shows.
 
I think those labels are all a matter of perspective. Trying to find contentment in what you have can be a difficult process - regardless of what the ruler shows.
I totally agree, I am content with my hard size and have accepted being tiny soft
 
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I totally agree, I am content with my hard size and have accepted being tiny soft
To me, my flaccid size (around 2-3 inches) is totally irrelevant as I'm not an underwear model or nude model. I get to 7 inches hard, which is above average. Even if your erect size is average or slightly smaller, it's really nothing to really be concerned about, as most people (especially women) will tell you it's how you use what you have, not the size, that matters most.
Being a grower can be tough. I know from experience.
I'm straight and a grow-er as well. Very few women's first experience with my penis was when it was soft, as they encountered it after making out and ensuring it was raging hard when my clothes came off. I've had a few first encounters where I was nude and flaccid when the sexual activity started, and it was nice to 'surprize' the woman by growing so much bigger.

How has being a grower been tough???
 
To me, my flaccid size (around 2-3 inches) is totally irrelevant as I'm not an underwear model or nude model. I get to 7 inches hard, which is above average. Even if your erect size is average or slightly smaller, it's really nothing to really be concerned about, as most people (especially women) will tell you it's how you use what you have, not the size, that matters most.

I'm straight and a grow-er as well. Very few women's first experience with my penis was when it was soft, as they encountered it after making out and ensuring it was raging hard when my clothes came off. I've had a few first encounters where I was nude and flaccid when the sexual activity started, and it was nice to 'surprize' the woman by growing so much bigger.

How has being a grower been tough???
Lots of locker room stares as they don’t know how much you grow
Mine is way below avg girth soft so looks tiny
 
To me, my flaccid size (around 2-3 inches) is totally irrelevant as I'm not an underwear model or nude model. I get to 7 inches hard, which is above average. Even if your erect size is average or slightly smaller, it's really nothing to really be concerned about, as most people (especially women) will tell you it's how you use what you have, not the size, that matters most.

I'm straight and a grow-er as well. Very few women's first experience with my penis was when it was soft, as they encountered it after making out and ensuring it was raging hard when my clothes came off. I've had a few first encounters where I was nude and flaccid when the sexual activity started, and it was nice to 'surprize' the woman by growing so much bigger.

How has being a grower been tough???
I’ll echo @littleguy2 - it has primarily been non-sexual situations that provided me anxiety and trauma over the years.
 
I’ll echo @littleguy2 - it has primarily been non-sexual situations that provided me anxiety and trauma over the years.
Been with my wife since a teen so no idea what it would have been like in the internet age to date and have to show a cock this small. As a teen my wife (gf at the time) never saw it soft since one touch or kiss and zero to rock hard in seconds
 
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Lots of locker room stares as they don’t know how much you grow
Mine is way below avg girth soft so looks tiny

I’ll echo @littleguy2 - it has primarily been non-sexual situations that provided me anxiety and trauma over the years.
I can be quite small when flaccid (as small as 1 inch when cold), and used to wonder if that was being noticed when in the locker rooms or shower rooms, that at some point decided that I simply didn't care.
99% of the other men weren't looking at me or the other guys anyway, and I certainly didn't care about the penises of the other guys. I simply put it our of my mind and did what I was there to do and minded my own business.
 
I can be quite small when flaccid (as small as 1 inch when cold), and used to wonder if that was being noticed when in the locker rooms or shower rooms, that at some point decided that I simply didn't care.
99% of the other men weren't looking at me or the other guys anyway, and I certainly didn't care about the penises of the other guys. I simply put it our of my mind and did what I was there to do and minded my own business.
That is a good attitude to have. Unfortunately I was exposed to ridicule in my youth that has stuck with me as trauma as an adult.
 
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