My wife is somewhat conservative. She enjoys having sex but I want to make it more fun....add toys, maybe 3 some, and other safe stuff. Any idea how I can bring her out of her shell? She is not into giving oral either. She use to but after having kids, she says she has bad gag reflex. We don't drink so alcohol is out of the question.
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Umm For starters respect her boundaries. Accept that porn is not real life. Check your priorities. You have a family with this woman, maybe a threesome takes second place to that.
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ETA: I'm conservative as crap... but when in a respectful, monogamous, committed relationship, there's not a whole lot that I wouldn't consider if my partner asked in a non-threatening, non-coercing way. "Honey, it really turns me on when I think about (insert fantasy)... is that something you'd consider? I'd really like for you to at least think about it." and then let her decide.
Could try getting a toy that's similar to your size and see how well you do with it down -your- throat and how -your- gag reflex does 
Thank you for your responses. Let me be clear that I don't force her to suck me because I understand it. I let her play with it as she feels comfortable. I enjoy and she loves getting oral so I do it. I have been respectful and would never consider disrespecting her because of her conservative nature.
Didn't you post photos of ya woman's dirty under-bloomers? Without her consent? For what I assume was ya own kink-rush?
That is not how ya respect ya life partner.
That is not how ya respect ya life partner.
I would strongly suggest her buying a huge and wide strap on to F**K your ass...that should spice things up.
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You also seem to think she’s cheating on you
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Not sure you should consider a threesome "safe stuff".
Why not simply talk with her???
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As everyone has already said just talk, don't expect a response straight away or push things just sow the seed hunni xx
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