Best way to connect online?

[Biguy1990]

Straight married guy here. Looking for ways to connect with guys in a similar situation, any recommendations?

Fit London based 34 year old, looking for other married guys.

 

[WilliamG]

Straight married guy here. Looking for ways to connect with guys in a similar situation, any recommendations?

Fit London based 34 year old, looking for other married guys.

You're going to have timing issues with others in the same boat. So for that I'd say Sniffies is my best choice as those on there are generally ready. Hosting will be an issue so car or park play is your best bet. I've found that chatting with someone online then telling them to meet you somewhere is the best.

Cruising though has been working the best for me. I look around on Sniffies for local parks or areas for current cruising opportunities. Often times the guys online are also near or at those areas as well. And even when no one is reporting they are there... There are guys there. The inverse is some places have dozens of guys posting they are there... When they are not. It's like a fishing trip really. Enjoy it.

 

[dickthrobbing]

Straight married guy here. Looking for ways to connect with guys in a similar situation, any recommendations?

Fit London based 34 year old, looking for other married guys.

In the UK try Fabguys.com, although its a gay hook up site there are a lot of bi married guys. Like all these types of sites it takes little effort to filter the good from the dross

 

[jockeys124]

Straight married guy here. Looking for ways to connect with guys in a similar situation, any recommendations?

Fit London based 34 year old, looking for other married guys.

Have you thought about going to a bathhouse?
While I am well aware this is probably the scariest thing you've ever thought of, really, it's quite different. And I'm sure there are some very nice bathhouses in London. In US, my favorite is STEAMWORKS in Chicago (look it up!)
The only fear you will experience is the drive to the place and the walk to the door. DO NOT FEAR. You will be greeted by a very friendly guy at the window who already senses your fear. He will introduce the club rules, and direct you where to go.
Once inside, you will find all kinds of guys JUST LIKE YOU. Go to the lockerroom and wrap a towel around yourself. Walk around, check things out. You will experience men in the showers, men wandering the halls, men in the sauna and the dry sauna. Roam the halls, look in the cracks in the doors. Men love it. Flirt, wink, be playful, look stare, respond to others' flirts, winks, stares, etc. With an ass like yours, you will have NO problem appealing to others. And it won't be long before you feel like you are right where you belong. Try it out. I've met MANY married/bi men at bathhouses (most of them have wives out of town). Any questions, just respond. I'd be happy to help!!

 

[gethard71]

Have you thought about going to a bathhouse?
While I am well aware this is probably the scariest thing you've ever thought of, really, it's quite different. And I'm sure there are some very nice bathhouses in London. In US, my favorite is STEAMWORKS in Chicago (look it up!)
The only fear you will experience is the drive to the place and the walk to the door. DO NOT FEAR. You will be greeted by a very friendly guy at the window who already senses your fear. He will introduce the club rules, and direct you where to go.
Once inside, you will find all kinds of guys JUST LIKE YOU. Go to the lockerroom and wrap a towel around yourself. Walk around, check things out. You will experience men in the showers, men wandering the halls, men in the sauna and the dry sauna. Roam the halls, look in the cracks in the doors. Men love it. Flirt, wink, be playful, look stare, respond to others' flirts, winks, stares, etc. With an ass like yours, you will have NO problem appealing to others. And it won't be long before you feel like you are right where you belong. Try it out. I've met MANY married/bi men at bathhouses (most of them have wives out of town). Any questions, just respond. I'd be happy to help!!

What is the ratio of guys walking around in a towel vs naked? I would prefer to be naked at all times, but I don’t want to be the odd one or seem out of place.

Also, do guys wear shoes or just walk around barefoot? I’m guessing it’s difficult to go into the wet areas with shoes.

 

[gethard71]

Have you thought about going to a bathhouse?
While I am well aware this is probably the scariest thing you've ever thought of, really, it's quite different. And I'm sure there are some very nice bathhouses in London. In US, my favorite is STEAMWORKS in Chicago (look it up!)
The only fear you will experience is the drive to the place and the walk to the door. DO NOT FEAR. You will be greeted by a very friendly guy at the window who already senses your fear. He will introduce the club rules, and direct you where to go.
Once inside, you will find all kinds of guys JUST LIKE YOU. Go to the lockerroom and wrap a towel around yourself. Walk around, check things out. You will experience men in the showers, men wandering the halls, men in the sauna and the dry sauna. Roam the halls, look in the cracks in the doors. Men love it. Flirt, wink, be playful, look stare, respond to others' flirts, winks, stares, etc. With an ass like yours, you will have NO problem appealing to others. And it won't be long before you feel like you are right where you belong. Try it out. I've met MANY married/bi men at bathhouses (most of them have wives out of town). Any questions, just respond. I'd be happy to help!!

Also, have you ever used the gym at Steamworks in Chicago? I plan on using it. I’m just not sure if I want to workout completely naked. I might wear at least a thong.

 

[jockeys124]

What is the ratio of guys walking around in a towel vs naked? I would prefer to be naked at all times, but I don’t want to be the odd one or seem out of place.

Also, do guys wear shoes or just walk around barefoot? I’m guessing it’s difficult to go into the wet areas with shoes.

most guys "wear" a towel while wondering and barefoot or flipflops.

 

[jockeys124]

quite honestly, I haven't seen anyone working out nude in any of the facilities I've been to. I have however had the experience of seeing one guy work out in gym shorts then take a break and go have shower or have fun, and return to the gym section, and continue working out.

Also, have you ever used the gym at Steamworks in Chicago? I plan on using it. I’m just not sure if I want to workout completely naked. I might wear at least a thong.