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A guys sexuality doesn't matter in regards to who or how he is.
But as far as mmf, I'm solely a one on one type
But as far as mmf, I'm solely a one on one type
The only person whose sexuality is of any importance to me is my partner. And it is quite necessary to me that he be straight.
Why? Because if he has a preference for something that I am not biologically equipped to fulfill then we have an issue.
I want to be his sole desire, and I want to fulfill those desires.
Why? Because if he has a preference for something that I am not biologically equipped to fulfill then we have an issue.
I want to be his sole desire, and I want to fulfill those desires.
Every bi man I’ve been with has cheated on me. Didn’t leave me with a good feeling.
In cases where someone purports to love me and agrees to a monogamous relationship, cheating always comes as a shock.
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I now consider myself to be bi. I am married; however, my marriage has been sexless for more than 5 years, when my wife's sex drive waned. While she did speak to her doctor, who recommended a solid course of action, ultimately my wife did nothing.
Had my sex drive waned along with hers, it would not have been so bad; however, mine is still as strong as ever. I was unwilling to relegate my sex life to masturbation.
I had joking offers from acquaintance to pleasure me. One day, much to their surprise and my own, I told the guy to "go for it". He did. I overcame my guilt quickly, and, turned to men for quick, easy, uncomplicated sexual gratification.
It has now been that way for years. I am discreet. She never asks. Classic "Don't ask; don't tell".
At this point, some of you may ask, "Why don't you just separate, and, divorce?" We have dependant children, who are entitled to as much stability, support and safety that we can give them, until they are independent. When that day comes, I will re-evaluate things.
Had my sex drive waned along with hers, it would not have been so bad; however, mine is still as strong as ever. I was unwilling to relegate my sex life to masturbation.
I had joking offers from acquaintance to pleasure me. One day, much to their surprise and my own, I told the guy to "go for it". He did. I overcame my guilt quickly, and, turned to men for quick, easy, uncomplicated sexual gratification.
It has now been that way for years. I am discreet. She never asks. Classic "Don't ask; don't tell".
At this point, some of you may ask, "Why don't you just separate, and, divorce?" We have dependant children, who are entitled to as much stability, support and safety that we can give them, until they are independent. When that day comes, I will re-evaluate things.
"Not all men. Not all men. Not all men..."
Don't mind me. Just going through my character-building and self-growth exercises. ️
Don't mind me. Just going through my character-building and self-growth exercises. ️
Sometimes the mate you're with is more about sex. Maybe it's more about a friend and someone who will be with you in the long run. I've been with my mate for over 24 years. We're not compatible sexually. We are mates who care about each other more than anyone will every know. Who cares If we don't have sex. Sex is fleeting - it happens and someday it will go away and be unimportant. I'm 56, I care about sex, but I care more about my life and safety. I'd rather be wacking off to a video rather than trying to hook-up and getting mugged or killed in the process. I have "friends" I have sex with but those number are few - I don't care.
Your wife has provided you with children who will live longer than your relationships. Care more that she cared more about you to give you something than to take it away cause you need sexual satisfaction.
In my opinon...
Excellent perspective that applied in a large degree to my own situation. Thank you
I caught a pic of you once here and that was a lucky guy who got to go for it!
That is why I only accepted couples, never a single bi man. 2 couples are wonderful fun when the dynamics are right. So for me mmfm is great when the other 2 wives are ff. But without a doubt a couple who is all in has worked the best for me. As for bi men - I love them when they come as a couple.
Been there. Done it.
Was fine. Oral only. Not looking to do it again. The time was right when it was. If the river meanders and the time becomes right again, meh...
I'm planning on dying still being his partner. He has to live longer for reasons. Yeah. Did I kill any boners yet? #goals
If my love was to tell me he wanted to fuck a man with me I'd be open to it. But he doesn't. We've clarified all that. So, I don't think I'll ever have another 3sum with 2 bi men.
Was fine. Oral only. Not looking to do it again. The time was right when it was. If the river meanders and the time becomes right again, meh...
I'm planning on dying still being his partner. He has to live longer for reasons. Yeah. Did I kill any boners yet? #goals
If my love was to tell me he wanted to fuck a man with me I'd be open to it. But he doesn't. We've clarified all that. So, I don't think I'll ever have another 3sum with 2 bi men.
What I tell myself, cuz it works for me. Whatever works for you isn't being suggested to change just rambling after a day...
Humans are just arrogant and complicated apes. Acceptance is the first step to recovery.
I refer to myself as involuntarily human. I didn't choose this, but I'll go with it. I'd rather be a plant.
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I still haven't met a bi man who lives with his boyfriend and sneaks off to see women on the side.
I've met a lot who work the other way around.
I'm sure that there are a lot of genuine bi men around, but my experience has been that the bi guys I've known have used their sexuality to either excuse their cheating or hide their love for dick.
As for MMF. I love it in porn. IRL it's awkward, someone ends up getting left out and it's usually the gf.
I've met a lot who work the other way around.
I'm sure that there are a lot of genuine bi men around, but my experience has been that the bi guys I've known have used their sexuality to either excuse their cheating or hide their love for dick.
As for MMF. I love it in porn. IRL it's awkward, someone ends up getting left out and it's usually the gf.
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People who relate someone's sexuality to how they behave or hide behind a "preference" are huge red flags (toxic) for me and a big turn off... but you do you
Aargh. As a bi man, I'm so sorry that happened to you. I understand. I was hoping that the recent study of 25% of the Gen Z population identifying as LBGTQ+ made things more acceptable for bi men to accept themselves as bi and come out, but societal norms tend to keep the bi guys more suppressed, so to get relief for their feelings they cheat with men, his woman finds out, and that perpetuates the cycle of the women feeling cheated, so the men don't come out, and the vicious cycle keeps going.
But I feel I was built to be bi, to love a woman with another bi guy (or bi women) to keep her warm all night long before clothes and campfires were invented, her orgasms lasting for hours, knowing that if we stop she'd get cold and get sick in a time when there were no doctors or medical knowledge to save her.
But obviously that's not an issue nowadays, so I hope you find the fulfilling love you've always wanted and don't mind a bisexual male Boomer talking about his bi fantasies once in a while.
