First let me say this. It's not so much how many inches long a man's dick is, as it is that he knows how to use it. Regardless of length. If he knows how to fuck with it and satisfy his partner it doesn't matter how long or big it is. As long as he's satisfying his partner his partner will satisfy him. I've known guys, men with a dick bigger than mine who couldn't fuck worth a damn. They seem to be under the delusion that because they had a big dick that they didn't need to worry about fucking. That their size alone was good enough to please anyone. But they couldn't fuck for shit
I'm above average but wouldn't say I'm large or huge. But I'll give you my 0.2¢.
It just depends on the situation. I'm 5'9 168 with 7-7.5" cock and I'm a grower. I always aim to please the partner I'm with first before I get mine. Maybe it's because I love to fuck. I'd rather do that than just about anything.
When I happen to see this guy who is well over 6' at the gym the other morning and he isn't as big as me on soft. His dick was a little skinny. I initially wished I hadn't seen his dick. Just sort of made me a little uncomfortable. I suppose I expected that he'd be pretty hung. And he may be when aroused.
However, there are times when I've been the bull to couples where the husband is at least an inch, inch and a half shorter than me. Sometimes more than that.It never bothers me.
In fact it usually makes me feel good to know that I've got a nice big cock compared to them. And that he and his wife are going to be enjoying my cock. I never try to humiliate or belittle them. It's not like they can help what they've got anymore than I can.
I'm just thankful I've got a nice sized cock. It gets hard, shoots off, and I can pee with it.. So it works as it should.. Sometimes I feel for guys who haven't got what I've got. But I sometimes wish I had a bigger cock. What man doesn't wish his dick was bigger at some point? Any man that says he doesn't is lying to himself.
I've know men with 4-5" cock's who could fuck like no tomorrow. They satisfied their partners well. They also had the ability to have shorter refractory periods and could cum at least a couple of times without needing a lot of rest in between sessions. .