Blowjob Question

[dfw051980]

Do most of you guys cum from a really good blowjob quickly? I find unless im really horny or have been edging myself prior it takes a really really long time for me to cum from a guy just sucking my dick, even when its a great BJ. I often warn the guy before that it may take a long time for me to bust so they dont exhaust their jaw lol.
Funny thing though if its a mutual BJ scenario that will help speed it along, especially if the guy has a nice cock. But most of these skilled cocksuckers want to reciprocation.

Any of you guys share the same experiences? I love getting sucked but i feel its more like an appetizer than the full meal.

 

[Tychalmers]

No, it honestly takes me a long time. I’ve always found that blowjobs don’t do it the same. I guess I like more of a mutual stimulation

 

[deleted1074483]

i'm with you too - 99% of time a blow job won't make me cum - the sucker has to be really good or i have to end up face fucking them to blow.

Can get me super hard though and ready to fuck and blow in their ass though ;-)

 

[Misterguy5]

This is me most of the time too. A few guys have been so good that I have to fight off cumming as long as I can because it is such a great experience.

 

[Brodie888]

Generally speaking, most guys I've sucked would blow within about 2 mins if I let them. My partner of 8 years is still like that so it's not just the excitement of being with someone new.

I try to edge him for at least 10-20 minutes. I'd go longer but but he starts bucking his hips desperate to orgasm.

The thought of a guy who finds it difficult to cum would be a dream come true really. I'd rather be in the moment slurping on dick than having to be conscious of when to back off and on again all the time.

 

[Kanashi]

i'm 42 and I've cum from a blow job maybe twice, but i definitely remember at least one time. i enjoy watching guys suck on my wang but i basically simply can't cum from bj's.

 

[chpoof]

Generally speaking, most guys I've sucked would blow within about 2 mins if I let them. My partner of 8 years is still like that so it's not just the excitement of being with someone new.

I try to edge him for at least 10-20 minutes. I'd go longer but but he starts bucking his hips desperate to orgasm.

The thought of a guy who finds it difficult to cum would be a dream come true really. I'd rather be in the moment slurping on dick than having to be conscious of when to back off and on again all the time.

My husband of 27 years used to be like that. When I first started sucking him off, I'd have to hold back or he would easily cum within 2 minutes. Over the years I've given him so many blowjobs that it's toughened up his glans, so now I can go "full cocksucker" mode on him and he cums usually within 10-15 minutes. He doesn't like to be edged, so once I get him close to the finish line, I give him the release.

I gotta say, regardless of whether it's 2 or 20 minutes (or shorter or longer), it turns me on like crazy when a guy cums during a BJ, especially if he gets really vocal about it.

 

[Brodie888]

My husband of 27 years used to be like that. When I first started sucking him off, I'd have to hold back or he would easily cum within 2 minutes. Over the years I've given him so many blowjobs that it's toughened up his glans, so now I can go "full cocksucker" mode on him and he cums usually within 10-15 minutes. He doesn't like to be edged, so once I get him close to the finish line, I give him the release.

I gotta say, regardless of whether it's 2 or 20 minutes (or shorter or longer), it turns me on like crazy when a guy cums during a BJ, especially if he gets really vocal about it.

Amen brother!

I understand what your partner is saying. Edging is a bit risky because you can accidentally have a half baked orgasm if he cums at the wrong moment.

I have no greater clarity in my life than how I feel when I put a dick in my mouth.

It's like the entire reason why I was put on this earth!

 

[throbbing4u]

Amen brother!

I understand what your partner is saying. Edging is a bit risky because you can accidentally have a half baked orgasm if he cums at the wrong moment.

I have no greater clarity in my life than how I feel when I put a dick in my mouth.

It's like the entire reason why I was put on this earth!

I know the feeling!

 

[ThroatCummer]

If the person is at least decent (say a B-minus grade) at giving head, I can easily cum anytime from a blowjob. I prefer the true cocksuckers who are completely into worshiping dick. Put one of those guys on his knees in front of me, and I will stay rock hard for hours and can cum whenever I want, from 2 mins to 2 hours. Although I have met a handful of guys so good, I can't resist wanting to cum in their mouth in about 10 mins.

 

[mrbigdoc]

When a guy is blowing me it can go for about 10-15 minutes before I shoot my load. I do have a friend that is very good at sucking my cock and he can get me off in about 5 minutes.... He is good. I have another friend that when I go down on him, he gets off in about 30 seconds.... I wish her lasted longer but that is how it goes.

 

[Aris219]

Is it safe to swallow cum? Like what do you prefer guys spit or swallow? Any safety tips? I badly want to swallow but I cant ignore getting hiv/aids

 

[radoveden1]

Very hard for me to cum from a bj. Having said that, quality does make a difference. Twice, I hit orgasm in less than a minute. Those 2 dudes knew what they were doing. The difference was lots of saliva, a very warm mouth, and a rhythm focused on the head.

 

[ChicagoPole]

For me, it depends on the guy doing the sucking. Some guys, now matter how much they like dick, are unskilled suckers. I have one buddy that loves to blow me. He's hot as hell, but treats the cock like a popsicle on a 90° day. It's all mechanics with him. I cannot cum from this guys blow jobs.

On the other hand, the guy behind the neighborhood glory hole who has me rock hard the moment my cock lands on his tongue. I have to work very hard to not cum within minutes. His skill is unmatched - and I'd call it 'catch and release' - he knows how to edge a cock using only his mouth.

My knees buckle every time I cum at his glory hole.

 

[Kanashi]

Is it safe to swallow cum? Like what do you prefer guys spit or swallow? Any safety tips? I badly want to swallow but I cant ignore getting hiv/aids

Swallowing semen isn't any more unhealthy or risky than having unprotected oral sex, in general. Having cum in your mouth is where the risk comes from. So if you let a guy cum in your mouth, spitting it out isn't any less risky than swallowing it.

 

[BlatinoX]

Definitely depends on who is doing it. I LOVE getting and giving head and if the person doing it is really skilled, I can sometimes cum multiple times with a little rest in between. On the flip side, if the sucker isn't skilled, then my dick will barely respond and I just politely tell them it's not going to work. Not going to waste a nut of some terrible head, no matter how hot you are.

 

[hairybubblebum]

I cum fast but that’s mostly because 90% of the time I’m bottoming and I edge for hours before

 

[jence77]

I’ve reached orgasm only one time by a blowjob. I mean by only blowing me. no hands at all. A guy I saw only that one time and never saw him again. I was shocked he made me finish so easily (not quickly) just using his mouth and not taking me forever to come. Was the first time someone accomplished that, and remains as the only time. I'm thinking now, might be the only time.

Many years later I vaguely told my ex bf “this only happened to me once” cause I didnt want him to know it was a gay experience I was talking about, nor wanted to share the details of the encounter. 2 weeks later +- he was blowing me really focused on the job, he was straight before knowing me and giving me bjs wasnt his thing, but this time it was clear he wanted this. Sadly it was not going to happen like that, he had to use his hands just for a little while so he could have me then exploding in his throat.

other than that, impossible for me to finish by a bj, if I notice the bj is all the action the guy is looking for and I find him really really hot, I have to wank myself to give him what he wants. Otherwise I tell the guy, sorry man, it wont happen, you can keep on doing that for an hour and my dick will remain hard, and still nothing.
I Pull my pants up, and leave. (of course, if this happens in my house I don’t leave, that would be odd).

(unless there’s a fire in my house, in that case it wouldnt be odd to leave but wise).

 

[jence77]

Swallowing semen isn't any more unhealthy or risky than having unprotected oral sex, in general. Having cum in your mouth is where the risk comes from. So if you let a guy cum in your mouth, spitting it out isn't any less risky than swallowing it.

I had never thought about it that way, but it makes a lot of sense.

 

[Iwanthead]

Very hard for me to cum from a bj. Having said that, quality does make a difference. Twice, I hit orgasm in less than a minute. Those 2 dudes knew what they were doing. The difference was lots of saliva, a very warm mouth, and a rhythm focused on the head.

Yes I agree,the gloryhole I used to visit weekly. Their mouths taught me how my cock being worshipped should feel. One mouth worked my balls, the other would deepthroat my cock their tongues would meet at the base of my cock.
I came buckets they would share my load, then both would lick my cock clean. Usually lead to a 2nd nut. And a reminder from them I have standing (pun intended) invitation anytime. I always received 2 thank yous as I was leaving.
Very few have provided me a blow job anywhere near their talent.