Blue Balls

[WhiteRabbit8]

I know so many girls think if a guy mentions he has blue balls, its a way to pressure them into unwanted sex. I use to think blue balls was a joke but for almost a month, ive lived in a shared dorm room and im starting to realize what blue balls is really like. It hurts and it seriously is hurting my entire body.

Do you have any suggestions on coping with the ache or do most of you guys think its still a myth?

 

[odave]

Blue balls are definitely a thing for most men. It happens after prolonged arousal without ejaculation. The best thing to do is to jerk yourself off and ejaculate. You'll get instant relief.

 

[WhiteRabbit8]

Blue balls are definitely a thing for most men. It happens after prolonged arousal without ejaculation. The best thing to do is to jerk yourself off and ejaculate. You'll get instant relief.

That’s the problem. I use to jerk it 3-5x daily but now im sharing a room at college so im lucky if i can do it one time at night

 

[odave]

That’s the problem. I use to jerk it 3-5x daily but now im sharing a room at college so im lucky if i can do it one time at night

I'm sure you can find a hiding place to rub out a quick one. . .bathroom stall somewhere?

 

[halcyondays]

Rub one out alone in the shower! And if you shower more than once a day...

 

[bardbard]

I went on a trip once with some friends. We all went to Disney. My straight friend and I got paired into a room together and we shared a bed together, wasn't a big deal to either of us.

The entire trip, his girlfriend of the time TORMENTED him. She was hot, flirty, huge rack, bubble butt. She absolutely adored teasing him.

Well, about 3 days into our trip, my good friend passes out from pain in the middle of Disney. He gets rushed to the onsite clinic and diagnosed with a fierce case of... Blue Balls.

Obviously, sharing a bed with me did that. I turn all the straight men blue. /s

But yes, definitely real, as my story above shows. As much as I teased him, the dude was tough and wouldn't have PASSED OUT if the pain wasn't off the charts. Do what you can, my friend, and find some time alone!

 

[Acratopotes]

I know so many girls think if a guy mentions he has blue balls, its a way to pressure them into unwanted sex. I use to think blue balls was a joke but for almost a month, i've lived in a shared dorm room and im starting to realize what blue balls is really like. It hurts and it seriously is hurting my entire body.

Being a real condition doesn't mean it isn't also sometimes used as a reason why a girl should put out when she is otherwise reluctant. Sometimes she may even agree, but blue balls are resolved by cumming however that happens so if a date turns out to be a tease, jacking off afterwards will work just fine.

Also, blue balls usually comes specifically from being aroused, especially for an extended time, without cumming. Just spending a few days without cumming doesn't automatically result in blue balls, though it can result in us feeling tense and edgy.

But, blue balls or not, I think guys are "designed" to cum fairly frequently. If a trip or a change of circumstances means you don't have the privacy you are used to or are deprived of the sex you usually have, don't torture yourself. There are only two options: 1. Find privacy some other way, like in the shower or at a time when your roommate is out. 2. Agree with the roommate that everyone has needs and it's ok to take care of things. That doesn't mean turning into an exhibitionist.

 

[JBD_Mikk]

There are only two options: 1. Find privacy some other way, like in the shower or at a time when your roommate is out. 2. Agree with the roommate that everyone has needs and it's ok to take care of things. That doesn't mean turning into an exhibitionist.

I was going to say the same thing - you shouldn't have to deal with pain from withholding from ejaculation! I've often quickly rubbed out a load in the bathroom when staying in a hotel or another house - no porn or edging, just meeting a need and preventing myself from feeling horny to distraction. It's a normal part of being a healthy male.

 

[ron88]

My partner and I are living in different cities for a few weeks. Before he left we had sex and then we were celibate for about 10 days. There was so much to do, so much work, that we just didn't get around to ejaculating together.

On the 10th day I woke up so horny and did some edging. I had to stop to get ready and start the day.
Some minutes after i stopped edging, my balls started hurting so much. The pain reached into my groin and up into my stomach, but also into my lower back. When I ran, it hurt when my testicles touched my thighs.

The testicles were so sensitive, I could hardly touch them while showering. The pain lasted for several hours until we finally found time and ejaculated. You can imagine the amount of sperm, it was so much, I've never experienced it before.