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So I opened up to my girlfriend recently about enjoying a few dicks in the past. She is extremely bisexual and has had many many threesomes and all that stuff, so she understands the whole hyper-sexual nature of my personality.
She was not upset or thought anything negative of it, especially because I had not disclosed this information to anyone before. She even immediately asked if I wanted to start having threesomes with guys. She's great.
Anyways, the one thing that she had an issue with was thinking of me as bottoming and being submissive. I have a very alpha and dominant personality in and out of the bedroom, which she is extremely attracted to. So, thinking of me in a submissive and beta situation was a huge turn off for her. I had to explained to her that my personality and alpha type of personality did not and has not changed WHATsoever.
I just started thinking about it a lot. Why the fuck can't a normal guy enjoy sex with another guy without being viewed as being submissive or beta. Why? Who ruined this for everyone? It seriously makes me hate the gay community because they have permanently established the image that if you like sex with guys, you are a feminine bitch who wants to be treated as such. Look at every singal gay pride event, walk into a gay bar, hell even have a conversation with 8/10 of them. Lisp, skinny/weak, zero masculinity whatsoever, etc etc.
When you take away every social stigma and meet with a guy who has a compeltely normal (i.e. non flamboyant bitch personality)(which is what I did), it's two people having fun.
I really hate how sex with guys is viewed, I really do. I wish the image wasn't so fucking submissive and lame. Guys like myself should be able to have sex or engage in sexual acts with one another without the beta stigma. Regardless of whether you engage in or support guys banging other guys, the mental image should not be so fucked up as it is.
She was not upset or thought anything negative of it, especially because I had not disclosed this information to anyone before. She even immediately asked if I wanted to start having threesomes with guys. She's great.
Anyways, the one thing that she had an issue with was thinking of me as bottoming and being submissive. I have a very alpha and dominant personality in and out of the bedroom, which she is extremely attracted to. So, thinking of me in a submissive and beta situation was a huge turn off for her. I had to explained to her that my personality and alpha type of personality did not and has not changed WHATsoever.
I just started thinking about it a lot. Why the fuck can't a normal guy enjoy sex with another guy without being viewed as being submissive or beta. Why? Who ruined this for everyone? It seriously makes me hate the gay community because they have permanently established the image that if you like sex with guys, you are a feminine bitch who wants to be treated as such. Look at every singal gay pride event, walk into a gay bar, hell even have a conversation with 8/10 of them. Lisp, skinny/weak, zero masculinity whatsoever, etc etc.
When you take away every social stigma and meet with a guy who has a compeltely normal (i.e. non flamboyant bitch personality)(which is what I did), it's two people having fun.
I really hate how sex with guys is viewed, I really do. I wish the image wasn't so fucking submissive and lame. Guys like myself should be able to have sex or engage in sexual acts with one another without the beta stigma. Regardless of whether you engage in or support guys banging other guys, the mental image should not be so fucked up as it is.
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