Bottoms Dealing with Pain

[AlwaysOn]

Hey guys. Hope everyone's doing well! Looking for some perspective and opinion here...

I'm 26cm (10inc), growing to 29/30cm (~11.5inc) when I'm really turned on. Some might get jelous at this point...but don't! What's between my legs is amazing for getting guys into bed, but that's where the problem strarts.

Luckily I'm vers, so if they can't take me I, I can btm (quite frankly I LOVE being stretched open). The issue is that guys just go "hung = top", so insist I top. Not a problem, only they VERY RARELY satisfy as btms! It's usually hours of barely penetrating them, stopping, trying again, wash rinse and repeat.

Even this isn't an issue in a long-term rel...there's nothing hotter for me than watching the man I love slowly adapt to me being inside him....but in hookups?! If you say you want to fuck, then insist I top, I expect to fuck you haha. Is there anyway of getting them to open up quicker?

Side-Note for hung guys...I NEEEVERRRR do it on purpose, but Is there a part of you that loves seeing btms in pain; or am I just messed up?

 

[Wooly Mammoth]

if you’re as big as you say you are, you will not have anybody to compare notes with.

 

[AlwaysOn]

if you’re as big as you say you are, you will not have anybody to compare notes with.

Yet another reason why I hate being like this. I get that I'm not hung, but a full on freak....but where I was born, I'm just large. In fact I know 2 guys a whole inch bigger than me.

In any case....I'd love some advice. Please

 

[Justawatcher23]

Yet another reason why I hate being like this. I get that I'm not hung, but a full on freak....but where I was born, I'm just large. In fact I know 2 guys a whole inch bigger than me.

In any case....I'd love some advice. Please

Have you tried the usual "A lot of foreplay beforehand" it works for women and men to relax their bodies, not only that, it also prepares them mentally to want to take it all. However, if you are really that size I dont see any help you could get, just go for already stretched asses and maybe as you daid try a serious relationship so there is more commitment to take it all.

Are you also big in thickness? And where the heck you came from, I should go on a trip someday bc what the heck??

 

[louparis10]

Being 100% versatile, it's my bottom side that answers you. The size of your cock matches my biggest dildo. Now that my hole is well trained, I could accept you without difficulty with a gentle first penetration.
And I would definitely like to meet a guy with a monstercock, at least 9" (22cm).
For sure it's clear that a poorly trained bottom really suffers at the first penetration. Time and lots of lube. I imagine it can be impossible for first time or for tight asshole.
Back to my top side, like you I take great pleasure in watching my cock penetrate the throat or asshole of the man I am fucking.

 

[skinhead biker]

I know anal hurts, and i like the pain, gives me a sense of achievement, I just struggle through and it always gets better after a little while.

Biggest thing is to remember to be relaxed beforehand, and once he is inside me, and I feel the burn, just remember it wont last for ever and i need to focus on the tops pleasure and not my own

 

[eskimojoe126]

Just gotta struggle through it and go slow. What I had done when I hooked up with a guy who was HUGE. We used lots of lube, once he got it in there he grabbed onto me real tight, slowly pushed it all the way in so I couldn't get away and just kept it there until I was able to relax and get used to it. That helped.

 

[skinhead biker]

Just gotta struggle through it and go slow. What I had done when I hooked up with a guy who was HUGE. We used lots of lube, once he got it in there he grabbed onto me real tight, slowly pushed it all the way in so I couldn't get away and just kept it there until I was able to relax and get used to it. That helped.

definitely the way to go, balls deep then let yourself get used to it

 

[Jabr]

Hey guys. Hope everyone's doing well! Looking for some perspective and opinion here...

I'm 26cm (10inc), growing to 29/30cm (~11.5inc) when I'm really turned on.

If you are really that size then you have a chance of winning 10k.

The $10,000 10-inch challenge

 

[HungBtmVegas]

Are we not boycotting this post until he shows us a picture of his cock next to the $10,000 check he would've cashed in on by now?

 

[ILoveGames48]

I never let a guys cock size determine whether I have sex with him.. I love the entire package.. from his nipples to kissing / licking chests and stomachs to rimming asses and stuff then suck cock .. then if wants to fuck me then I let him.. sure sometimes probably small to where barely feel it but he fucks enough he still does same when getting off.. and that’s cumming..

 

[XLIMX]

Side-Note for hung guys...I NEEEVERRRR do it on purpose, but Is there a part of you that loves seeing btms in pain; or am I just messed up?

Not really, I love this too. It's discussed beforehand so that I'm not too rough with anyone who isn't into it, but I'll just choke a bottom and make them take it.

Not everyone will be ok with that, so with others I do find it a struggle The ones that agree to it are the best

 

[crossel]

Not really, I love this too. It's discussed beforehand so that I'm not too rough with anyone who isn't into it, but I'll just choke a bottom and make them take it.

Not everyone will be ok with that, so with others I do find it a struggle The ones that agree to it are the best

Yeah it’s extra hot being rough and seeing the bottom struggle and still take it. It’s like it’s a privilege for them to get fucked by me.

 

[ILoveGames48]

The thing about a bottom .. is that he is willing to let the top .. fuck him.

It’s not the fact that it a privilege to being fucked by you or any other top guy.. it’s the bottom giving you the privilege to fuck them..