Bottoms: How has your hole changed over the years since you started/as a result of you bottoming? Has it become looser, tighter, do you experience any pain or leakage, has it changed shape or size, hemorrhoids, bathroom issues, more or less sensitive to sensation, etc......
Bottoms: How has your hole changed since you started bottoming?
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Great question.
Hopefully some size queens will reply. Guys who use big dildos on a regular basis or hung guys.
For me, it seems I stay "opened up" to a certain point no matter how many years go by without anal. It's like it tightens back up without use but not as tight as a virgin hole. Starting again is easier than the first time.
I remember going to a Dr. and he fingered me, right away he asked :
"are you gay" ? I wasn't very "active" at that time but he could feel the difference.
Hopefully some size queens will reply. Guys who use big dildos on a regular basis or hung guys.
For me, it seems I stay "opened up" to a certain point no matter how many years go by without anal. It's like it tightens back up without use but not as tight as a virgin hole. Starting again is easier than the first time.
I remember going to a Dr. and he fingered me, right away he asked :
"are you gay" ? I wasn't very "active" at that time but he could feel the difference.
Id say not that much. I still remember the first times and it hurt like hell. If I go too long without sex it still hurts like hell again only slightly easier because I know what Im doing this time around. But to be forthcoming I'm not a size queen. I have no desire to be ripped apart by some gigantic dick or dildo. I've had a few big dicks but never on the regular.
no, only temporarily. I snap back like yoga pants.
So what did you tell the doctor who asked "are you gay"? Were you out at the time, I could see how that question coming out of nowhere from a doc could make for an uneasy situation.....
MuscledHorse
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My hole has massively changed, but I set out to take my love of size and the freak show status it earned me among friends and so he far I can go with it, so I don't just get fucked by big cocks, I take giant toys and get fisted. I can currently easily stretch my anal sphincter and lower rectum to just over four inches wide (13.4 inches circumference) and my deep rectum can go a good three inches wide (10 to 11 inches circumference).
The transformation has been from a small round hole to a long obvious gash that easily gapes and has a starter prolapse. I did a two part porn series called "How'd You Get So Loose?" showing my hole training and the effects of large objects going in me multiple times a week, every week and attending multi-day, high use events (like Pig Week and Fist Fest) nearly every month for a minimum of four days use and as many as ten. I have pictures I can post if you want to see them or check out the trailers on my X/Bluesky JaredEriksonXXX.
For those wondering, yes I am still stretch training to take even more so the XL Bad Dragon and larger end of the Topped Toys spectrum are my friends (I currently can start okay with an egg shaped 10.8 inch circumference plug and easily slide down on it.
For those also wondering if I care about incontinence issues: no I don't. I have a permanent shower shot (and a travel set too) in my shower and am hosed out everyday; I haven't taken a normal shit in ages. But, that said, I am one of the extreme size pigs who wants to see just how much I can get my hole to physically take (yes, the rush and pleasure sensations are amazing!). For most guys, they will experience a more flexible anal and rectal musculature but nothing on the level of loose or anal/rectal muscle remodeling that guys like me experience.
The transformation has been from a small round hole to a long obvious gash that easily gapes and has a starter prolapse. I did a two part porn series called "How'd You Get So Loose?" showing my hole training and the effects of large objects going in me multiple times a week, every week and attending multi-day, high use events (like Pig Week and Fist Fest) nearly every month for a minimum of four days use and as many as ten. I have pictures I can post if you want to see them or check out the trailers on my X/Bluesky JaredEriksonXXX.
For those wondering, yes I am still stretch training to take even more so the XL Bad Dragon and larger end of the Topped Toys spectrum are my friends (I currently can start okay with an egg shaped 10.8 inch circumference plug and easily slide down on it.
For those also wondering if I care about incontinence issues: no I don't. I have a permanent shower shot (and a travel set too) in my shower and am hosed out everyday; I haven't taken a normal shit in ages. But, that said, I am one of the extreme size pigs who wants to see just how much I can get my hole to physically take (yes, the rush and pleasure sensations are amazing!). For most guys, they will experience a more flexible anal and rectal musculature but nothing on the level of loose or anal/rectal muscle remodeling that guys like me experience.
MuscledHorse
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LOL, I was listening to a couple of older ladies talking about how "those gay men have to wear nappies all the time" Ah ok...
Bottoming was new to me and initially a bit uncomfortable but it didn't last long and besides, being fucked like a girl was quite mindblowing. I had a few urgency issues when he started popping into my 2nd hole but it went quickly once I developed muscle tone. One unexpected result was a significant increase in rectal volume, meaning that a few toilets got blocked for a while.
My hole became more slit-like after a couple of months of being a twice daily cock slut but it wasn't until much later when I got into stretching that I developed puffy "bootycunt" lips, which were a hit with him and a few select mates during the weekends.
As I got older my interests changed a bit and I bottomed less/topped more the lips faded away, but of late I've been stretching again without issue, it just returns to shape in a 10 minutes or so. Digital prostate exams have never been an issue (other than getting a hard cock) and my gay doctor tells me that this isn't uncommon for bottoms.
Bottoming was new to me and initially a bit uncomfortable but it didn't last long and besides, being fucked like a girl was quite mindblowing. I had a few urgency issues when he started popping into my 2nd hole but it went quickly once I developed muscle tone. One unexpected result was a significant increase in rectal volume, meaning that a few toilets got blocked for a while.
My hole became more slit-like after a couple of months of being a twice daily cock slut but it wasn't until much later when I got into stretching that I developed puffy "bootycunt" lips, which were a hit with him and a few select mates during the weekends.
As I got older my interests changed a bit and I bottomed less/topped more the lips faded away, but of late I've been stretching again without issue, it just returns to shape in a 10 minutes or so. Digital prostate exams have never been an issue (other than getting a hard cock) and my gay doctor tells me that this isn't uncommon for bottoms.
I’m not gonna say mine has any noticeable change during normal activity but it has became much much easier to be penetrated the longer I have been doing it
Versatile here, more often acting as top than bottoming. It seems to me it tightens back up but not as tight as a virgin hole. Have trained my asshole with huge dildos, starting again is easier than the first time. Visually, my hole hasn't really changed but it's accustomed, penetration has become easy.
MuscledHorse
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I always find those assertions funny, especially when made by older people. The overwhelming majority of gay guys will never need to wear a diaper from getting fucked or even fisted unless they are a size pig like me who wants to see how stretched out he can get and how much size he can fit in his rectum/colon. Guys like me are a different story and a micro percentage of sodomites. The reason I their comment funny is because I've seen the diaper aisle at Walmart. It's very large--and companies don't put stuff on shelves or devote that much shelf space to a product if it isn't moving....which means either it's going to happen eventually (so I'm going to enjoy getting there far more than the average person) or there are a lot of heavily closeted pig bottoms like me out there.
For sure, or maybe tampons are the tool of choice for owners of busted holes?
MuscledHorse
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Not me (that killed Kemmy in a South Park episode). I have had to put a pile of toilet paper in my gaped ass to absorb all the lube and cum that would otherwise be running out of me but now I just put on a pull-up diaper. Way easier.
My hole hasn't changed that much. It still hurts at first if I go too long without having sex. They way I see if whats going in is a similar size as whats coming out you be good for most of your life. I think it feels way better that tighter you are so the only time I let something huge inside is if it's the real thing. Why waste it on a dildo or something. Never had any issues except in the very beginning. It felt like I always had to go to the bathroom.
I've regularly bottomed (vers) on and off for over a decade. The hole visually changes with regular use over years (not including size training or gaping) but not in any dramatic way. For most bottoms a hole with average experience might look more wrinkled or darker but not like a slit. You have to train for that kind of slit look.
It's like a muscle for most people, so with experience it gets more toned if it's just regular dick in ass or small to medium toys. I find if I'm regularly bottoming I seem to have less issues with my hole from daily life like micro-tears. No continence issues.
Definitely more refined sensation with use and sensitivity to stimulation, better ability to discern and the pleasure has gotten significantly better, more complex. This is the biggest change. Went from uncomfortable feeling, to nothing, to erogenous zone, to additional complimentary pleasure and nice fullness, to having its own craving itself, to actively stimulating for pleasure, to prostate orgasms/milking, to anal orgasms.
On looseness, it's more skill than anything and the hole begins losing skill to open up without regular use (more than once a week). Give it a month or month and a half and I may have issues taking anything even teensy tiny (bigger than a pinky) without active work. The skill and ability to bottom seems to be half-muscle memory half active skill. I find that there's a set point where your body adapts, that takes years to get to but eventually your body can take a certain set size and everything below it is easy-peasy, not even registering on the radar of difficulty. This has changed twice in my life, for context. This isn't looseness because if you take a break you need to still re-familiarize with regular opening up, but the benchmark does return.
Half-muscle memory because it's very clearly easy to upskill when you return to bottoming. If you train to a certain length, it's hard the first time you do it but every time in the future will be easier if you take a break.
Even after all these years I have the occasional tops blaming me for tightness, when the tightness is them not allowing me the time to open up due to impatience. It's extremely frustrating and concerns me about our culture right now. Even with experience, it's something that requires active relaxation to open and properly as well as safely enjoy - or opening with a toy before even meeting with a top.
It's like a muscle for most people, so with experience it gets more toned if it's just regular dick in ass or small to medium toys. I find if I'm regularly bottoming I seem to have less issues with my hole from daily life like micro-tears. No continence issues.
Definitely more refined sensation with use and sensitivity to stimulation, better ability to discern and the pleasure has gotten significantly better, more complex. This is the biggest change. Went from uncomfortable feeling, to nothing, to erogenous zone, to additional complimentary pleasure and nice fullness, to having its own craving itself, to actively stimulating for pleasure, to prostate orgasms/milking, to anal orgasms.
On looseness, it's more skill than anything and the hole begins losing skill to open up without regular use (more than once a week). Give it a month or month and a half and I may have issues taking anything even teensy tiny (bigger than a pinky) without active work. The skill and ability to bottom seems to be half-muscle memory half active skill. I find that there's a set point where your body adapts, that takes years to get to but eventually your body can take a certain set size and everything below it is easy-peasy, not even registering on the radar of difficulty. This has changed twice in my life, for context. This isn't looseness because if you take a break you need to still re-familiarize with regular opening up, but the benchmark does return.
Half-muscle memory because it's very clearly easy to upskill when you return to bottoming. If you train to a certain length, it's hard the first time you do it but every time in the future will be easier if you take a break.
Even after all these years I have the occasional tops blaming me for tightness, when the tightness is them not allowing me the time to open up due to impatience. It's extremely frustrating and concerns me about our culture right now. Even with experience, it's something that requires active relaxation to open and properly as well as safely enjoy - or opening with a toy before even meeting with a top.
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So as for me. My hole hasn’t changed drastically, but has developed into more of a slit vs a star. If I’ve been getting a lot of action lately, it does get looser but will tighten back up in a few weeks if I don’t. But it’s never as tight as is was as a virgin hole before. I’ve never experienced any incontinence issues, but I do notice that my farts are not a tight squeak like most (straight men), but more of a blap, blap, blap. Though not at all silent like when Peter griffin went to jail, lol. Also my rule is never put anything in bigger than what normally comes out and don’t do anything that hurts, and you’ll be ok. Never had a fissure, though I have had some bleeding, not associated with any pain. I think that was just an internal hemorrhoid or popped blood vessel, but not a big issue.
I've been bottoming for a good few years now, and I can't say I've noticed much change in my hole. Visually, it looks exactly the same as my pre-bottoming days. It's still nice and tight, and feels as secure as always. I've never felt concerned about looseness or anything. It is, however, much, much easier to penetrate in a sexual situation now. My body definitely relaxes now and my bf can get his penis inside almost instantly without any warm up or pain. SO in terms of function, yes- definite changes. But tightness and appearance, no.
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